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Is this normal?

posted 15th Jul '12
I'm 10 weeks pregnant.
before i got pregnant i was always up doing something making dinner cleaning the house pretty much being a house wife but ever since i got pregnant I haven't had the energy or the strength to do any of that. I have stopped cleaning and cooking and my husband works all the time and he don't like coming home to a dirty house and no dinner and i cant make him understand how im feeling what do i do?
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I'm due February 7th (a girl) & live in Manchester, Georgia
posted 15th Jul '12
I slept pretty much the whole 9 months I was pregnant. I had no energy to do anything at all
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I have 1 child & live in Delaware
posted 15th Jul '12
was your husband getting mad at you about it?
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I'm due February 7th (a girl) & live in Manchester, Georgia
posted 15th Jul '12
Quoting Courtney Bratcher:" I'm 10 weeks pregnant. before i got pregnant i was always up doing something making dinner cleaning ... [snip!] ... time and he don't like coming home to a dirty house and no dinner and i cant make him understand how im feeling what do i do? "


Tell him its normal for this part of pregnancy and will be over soon. Sooner if he would be understanding and not stress you out.
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I'm due February 14th (a girl), have 1 child & live in North Carolina
posted 15th Jul '12
Yeah I was like that, I had to PUSH myself to cook dinner, clean the house etc I'm not like that, I love cleaning and cooking, sucks lol.
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I have 2 kids & live in Iran
posted 15th Jul '12
I have tried to push myself to do it im either falling asleep at the kichen sink or running to the bathroom to puke because i smelt something bad.lol
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I'm due February 7th (a girl) & live in Manchester, Georgia
posted 15th Jul '12
Quoting Audrey&& Addi  :" I slept pretty much the whole 9 months I was pregnant. I had no energy to do anything at all"

Oh I wish I could do that, I had no idea how hard being pregnant and having a 4yr old would be haha.

All I wanted to do yesterday was sleep, seeing as it was the weekend and SO was home, you think I could have, nope, dead wrong.  
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I have 2 kids & live in Iran
posted 15th Jul '12
Girl, you're pregnant, not disabled. You still have to own up to your end of the deal. What if he quit working because he was just so tired?

I was also extremely tired, but I still got up..went to work..cleaned..took car of the dog..cooked and went to school. I did it because I had to.

My advice is to get up and clean the damn house and cook your man dinner. If you're tired, take breaks. You're only 9 weeks, not 9 months. It sucks, but...smurf has to get done.
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I have 1 child & live in Arkansas
posted 15th Jul '12
SAHM here...
I was the same way with Heathen.
If DH came home and was at mad at me for the house being dirty or dinner not being done....I told him he could suck my dick...I'm making your kid. Little more important than dinner.

It's totally normal. You just have to find a way to deal with it
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I'm due January 21st, have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in North Carolina
posted 15th Jul '12
Quoting Courtney Bratcher:" was your husband getting mad at you about it?"

I know mine would, only because he works hard, gets up at 4AM and we dont see him until 6PM, so it's a long day for him, with only eating lunch...
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I have 2 kids & live in Iran
posted 15th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" I know mine would, only because he works hard, gets up at 4AM and we dont see him until 6PM, so it's a long day for him, with only eating lunch..."</blockquote>



Hell yeah! And he'd be right to get pissed... If he's gonna work while I sit on my ass, the least I can do is pick up the house and cook some damn hamburger helper.
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I have 1 child & live in Arkansas
posted 17th Jul '12
Not to be rude but i wouldn't care how long he worked im not his slave and im in pain so no im not gonna get up and do something if i can barely get to the bathroom he needs to learn to deal with it. we are having a baby he thinks everything is normal and dont understand why im in pain.
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I'm due February 7th (a girl) & live in Manchester, Georgia
posted 17th Jul '12
LOL...try being prego with a 15 month old...Push yourself OP...take naps, get up do what go have to, take another nap, get up cook dinner, I worked full time had my 15month old and still managed to get things done while prego, its hard, but it isnt impossible!
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I have 2 kids & live in California
posted 17th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Courtney Bratcher:</b>" Not to be rude but i wouldn't care how long he worked im not his slave and im in pain so no im not gonna ... [snip!] ... he needs to learn to deal with it. we are having a baby he thinks everything is normal and dont understand why im in pain. "</blockquote>

Id hate to be your baby daddy. You are selfish. You're pregnant, not crippled. Stop acting like it. You are in so much pain that you can do nothing but lay in bed?!? At 10 weeks?!? Ha! Wait until you're 9 months, but I doubt your SO with still be with you at that time considering your attitude.

You're not a slave. You're a woman being supported by a man and doing nothing for him in return. Guess what? I'm pregnant and my husband goes out of town for days for work. Do you think I lay around in filth because I'm in pain? Are you paying the bills? If not, get your lazy ass up, stop crying about the "pain," and do your part in the relationship. If not, don't be surprised when you're alone. And no, men don't understand. So stop expecting him to and get out of the damn bed.

Gotta love chicks that make the decision to get pregnant and then act disabled!
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I have 1 child & live in Arkansas
posted 17th Jul '12
Im 29 weeks pregnant and have an 11 month old and im about to start school i clean and cook for my husband everyday and trust me im sure im a lot more tired and in pain than u...it can be done.
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I'm due October 2nd, have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Washington
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