Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Are you thick? Seriously...."
You dont know my SO.. or his father.. They would have kept at it untill one of them would have ended up in the hospital. or jail. Im not "thick" i did the best i could on sort notice for my family.. my back was aginst a wall.. We had no money thanks to his mother..and no time to sit and dick around in a heated situation to get all our funds arranged to find something else.. its not like we could have jsut found something asap..unlike here.. where we had jobs thanks to good connections waiting for us..and it wont take that long to get on our feet.. this is a much better situation for my child and SO.. a much beter invironment.. im just slightly uncomfortable..wich i can deal i guess for the sake of my child and SOs well being..