Wow thanks for that..

Was told by someone today(a close friend of mine) that I am silly for being so upset about my miscarriage I had because I didn't know I was pregnant.

I mean I feel like it doesn't matter and jeez it just happened last month! Am I wron for still being hurt? I am not like depressed and not living life hurt just every now any then I get sad, especially seeing all these pregnant women every. Just makes me sad I guess.

that is really messed up...  

<blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" that is really messed up...  "</blockquote>




That she told me that? Or that I am upset?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" that is really messed up...  "</blockquote> That she told me that? Or that I am upset?"</blockquote>




Horrible that she told you that.
How would she know how you feel until she's been in your same situation.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Lexie4673:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Horrible that she told you that. How would she know how you feel until she's been in your same situation."</blockquote>




Yeah I mean I get that to some people that isn't considered a baby but hey I can still be sad.

Thank you!

Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:" Was told by someone today(a close friend of mine) that I am silly for being so upset about my miscarriage ... [snip!] ... life hurt just every now any then I get sad, especially seeing all these pregnant women every. Just makes me sad I guess."

That's not silly, having been through it myself - it's still hard and it's o.k to be sad about it after all you did loose your baby (I still say baby no matter how many weeks you were/might of been, since it's how I feel) I think it was insentive for your friend to say what she did say...maybe talk to her about it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting 1stTymMummy:</b>" That's not silly, having been through it myself - it's still hard and it's o.k to be sad about it after ... [snip!] ... of been, since it's how I feel) I think it was insentive for your friend to say what she did say...maybe talk to her about it."</blockquote>




Yeah she is kinda one of those people who just says without thinking so I told her she was being a jerk and walked off. She ultimately apologized but still....

Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" that is really messed up...  "</blockquote> That she told me that? Or that I am upset?"

that she said that of course !!

Quoting Lexie4673:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... Horrible that she told you that. How would she know how you feel until she's been in your same situation."

yea   I'm sure I would be sad too

<blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" that she said that of course !! "</blockquote>




Thanks! It's just always hard to interpret what people mean.


Like I said she is just one of those people that talks without thinking and I generally love her to death for it but, come on, now of all times?

Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" that she said that of course !! "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... just one of those people that talks without thinking and I generally love her to death for it but, come on, now of all times?"

Know what you mean...sometimes it's best for people to think 1st.

Quoting Maddy&belle'sMommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" that she said that of course !! "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... just one of those people that talks without thinking and I generally love her to death for it but, come on, now of all times?"

I have a friend like that... I either ignore her when she says hurtful smurf, or just let it pile on then explode on her ass   hey it works... lol. She probably didn't MEAN to be that rude if that's how she is...

How hurtful! If I didn't know I was pregnant and then had a miscarriage, I would still be just as upset as I would if I had known.

I am sorry for your loss. And I am sorry that this person said what they did.

I feel bad for human kind when people are so unsupportive of issues such as this. "Oh you were only three weeks? Get over it" ...

It doesn't matter how far along, if you knew or didn't know. It is a hard pill to swallow knowing you lost a little tiny piece of yourself who didn't get a chance to be more.

I hope the person that said this, reflects upon it and apologizes.

<blockquote><b>Quoting £ex Zeppelin:</b>" I have a friend like that... I either ignore her when she says hurtful smurf, or just let it pile on ... [snip!] ... it pile on then explode on her ass   hey it works... lol. She probably didn't MEAN to be that rude if that's how she is... "</blockquote>




Yeah I know she wasn't trying to be mean she did apologize and said she wasn't trying to offend me but I pointed out that some people are just sensitive to certain situations. We go back and forth about LOTS of things. I don't see how we are friends lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ Letters to Alice:</b>" How hurtful! If I didn't know I was pregnant and then had a miscarriage, I would still be just as upset ... [snip!] ... piece of yourself who didn't get a chance to be more. I hope the person that said this, reflects upon it and apologizes. "</blockquote>



Thank you! She did apologize and does understand I am still hurt by what she said but eh she is just "that friend" the one nobody wants to claim knowing but ya do.