Advice ?

When I told my step mom I was pregnant one of the first things she asked was if I did it on purpose, and if I did this for attention, or if I could make sure my boyfriend couldn't leave. After I told her no she asked if I was using protection I told her yes, I was using condoms and she screamed at me that I was lying. Because it's impossible for condoms to break. She said shes never had that happen to her and theres no way it happened to me, and now she thinks I did this for attention.
She told me because I wasn't in tears telling her, I was probably happy about it. When I told her it was done and over with and I can't do anything about it now, and I refuse to be sad, and I'm going to be happy about it, she told me I obviously did this on purpose and that I'm a liar.

How do I make her understand this was an accident, without being 'upset' about it?

Btw, sorry for so many posts tonight, I can't sleep.(x

eh.. smurf her. from what I learned dont really care about others think. Everyone think I got pregnant with my youngest because my ex got his girlfriend pregnant.

First of all take a deep breath it  
Second dont try to convince her focus on ur pregnancy and being happy!

Maybe she's just in shock right now. Maybe her believing you did it on purpose is the only way for her to handle it. I think you should give her some time. If things don't get better maybe see if another family member can talk to her.

ETA: Out of all of my friends in high school, I'm the only one who didn't have a condom break on them. Pretty much my whole group of 8 friends had a condom break on them. My one friend had at least 5 break on her. They never got pregnant though. Of course me, who's never had a condom break, was the one that got pregnant. Go figure lol

People are going to think what they want regardless. There was a lot of questions around me being pregnant with DS but I knew the truth and that was that. It was accident, and they happen, A LOT. Screw what she thinks, you know what happened and that's all that matters. I wouldn't bother trying to convince her other wise really

One broke with me and my husband. The result children #3 and 4. It was twins. All I can think of is remind her that they are only about 85% effective (if I'm remembering right) and she may not be having sex right if she's never had on break   lol just joking about the last part.

Quoting MeganBlogna:" When I told my step mom I was pregnant one of the first things she asked was if I did it on purpose, ... [snip!] ... her understand this was an accident, without being 'upset' about it? Btw, sorry for so many posts tonight, I can't sleep.(x"

Haha my mom did this to me & even went as far as to suggest an abortion because she wasn't ready for a 2nd grandchild(my sister had her 1st last year at 22 & she was married, i'm 19 & engaged)

shes just a little shocked even though im 18 and i was already engaged and living on my own she still got mad at me and my fiance she asked me the same questions because me and him had hit a rough patch, i wasn't screaming and sobbing like the world was ending, he didn't have a job, and she really wasn't ready for a grandchild but she got over it and now im 5 months and she is loving every second of it me and my fiance haven't been happier he has a full time job... its different if its their first grandchild my fiances mom was ecstatic of course she already had 4 and she knew we could do it... so just give her time and space and go on with your parenting and let her gradually involve herself because even though that baby isnt here yet you are still a mother

GOOD LUCK!!! Best wishes and congratulations!!!

It's logical that she was going to react this way, she's probably just angry. Don't try to convince her, that'll only make things worse. Give her some time and space so that she can think about what's going on. Good luck.

Quoting MeganBlogna:" When I told my step mom I was pregnant one of the first things she asked was if I did it on purpose, ... [snip!] ... her understand this was an accident, without being 'upset' about it? Btw, sorry for so many posts tonight, I can't sleep.(x"

I was 14 when I had my first baby ,but my ma didnt find out until I was 6 months pregnant!I got the screaming questions also,.I did finish school a year early and thing between my son father and I didnt work so we broke up. But now Im 28, married with two daughters by my hubsand and one on the way,but to let you know I feel where your coming from but keep your head up an god will help you with the rest ,I think she is maybe more shocked than you!