Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I guess, but sometimes I feel maybe it would be best for me to just live with regret than add so much hardship on my children and myself. "
Look at it this way.
I got an abortion for a guy [I have learned to accept it and I made the best choice for myself and my son]. We didnt have to go on hard times until a few years later. Now we are in a bit of a bind but we are fine. I have also placed a child because I wasnt ready to parent another one and I wasnt ready for the fight with the other dad.
It is all up to you. Make a pro and con list.