re: So torn with my decision still..

Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I want to keep the baby, but that makes me feel selfish. If it were a perfect world and I came into ... [snip!] ... bit of money, FOR SURE I would keep this baby. I guess at the end of the day, that's all this decision is riding on - money."

Money can change but.. at the end of the day.. its always going to be about that. I know what you mean in a perfect world. I say get an abortion. But who am I to say for you. Ya know?
I wish you all the best.

Thank you very, very much.

Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" Thank you very, very much."

You are very welcome.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I want to keep the baby, but that makes me feel selfish. If it were a perfect world and I came into ... [snip!] ... bit of money, FOR SURE I would keep this baby. I guess at the end of the day, that's all this decision is riding on - money."</blockquote>



Money is important but I couldn't let it decide wither I kept my child are you on any assistants? If money is the only reason I'd think ur pros out weigh the cons? Your pretty close to the surrogate twins due date that I'm carrying so that means you have a little time to think about it r u with the dad is he supporting you?

Quoting EskimoKiss:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:</b>" I want to keep the baby, but that ... [snip!] ... twins due date that I'm carrying so that means you have a little time to think about it r u with the dad is he supporting you?"

I am with him, but he does not want to be a father. He will be going to a big University across the country soon and doesn't have "room in his life to let anyone, even his kid, hold him back from his dreams" so he will not be in the child's life and will not stay in mine if I keep it. Right now I am on Learner's Benefits but I will have to take time off from college when the baby is born and won't be able to get it anymore and will need to go on welfare until I can get back on something else.

Quoting Suraya's mommy ♥:" I am with him, but he does not want to be a father. He will be going to a big University across the ... [snip!] ... the baby is born and won't be able to get it anymore and will need to go on welfare until I can get back on something else."

Well if it is going to be that way I would certainly abort because right now getting your life in order for your HERE child already is more of a poratity and being stable than waiting and suffering more.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvon [♥]:</b>" Well if it is going to be that way I would certainly abort because right now getting your life in order ... [snip!] ... getting your life in order for your HERE child already is more of a poratity and being stable than waiting and suffering more. "</blockquote>



I really dont think she wants to. Op the father sounds like an real ass but you can still get your life in "order" with a 2nd child hell my mom did it with 4! A second baby isn't the end of your dreams or future there's always a way.

Quoting EskimoKiss:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvon [♥]:</b>" Well if it is going to be that way ... [snip!] ... "order" with a 2nd child hell my mom did it with 4! A second baby isn't the end of your dreams or future there's always a way."

I agree with you

I feel like that too. My grandma, aunt, and a few cousins did it. I'm just not sure if I can. I will not give up on making something of my self no matter what. It will happen, even if it has to be delayed a year or so.