re: I just need someone to talk to.
posted 15th Jul '12
I hate that I'm seeing this so late How are you feeling now?
quoteposted 15th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Clayton Bigsby:</b>" I hate that I'm seeing this so late How are you feeling now?"</blockquote>
A little better, still stressed and just sad.
quoteposted 15th Jul '12
awww, well i will not lie to you, when i found out i did exactly what you did, i took pregnancy test after pregnancy test after pregnancy test!! I too thought that Giving my baby peace because of what i lacked would be a good choice that is until i realized that there was the choice of ADOPTION!! whatever you feel you cant give to your baby trust and believe me when i say someone who cant have kids and have been trying will be able to!! after talking with a couple of family members though and realizing that i was not alone, my decision changed completely!!...the best of luck to you miss lady. You got this. no matter what
quoteposted 15th Jul '12
Peyton0112, you need to read the rules of this forum.
On another note, I'm sorry you have to go through this OP. It's never an easy decision. Good luck in whatever you choose. <3 *tons of hugs*
quoteposted 15th Jul '12
Quoting Kylees Mama:" Peyton0112, you need to read the rules of this forum.
what exactly did i say that was wrong? I gave her my experience and let her know that its okay to feel what she feels cause i felt it, but if in the end of things she needed another outlet there is always adoption, just in case she wasnt comfortable with abortion ya know. But i apologize if i offended you Kylees Mama. I was just shining light and trying to help.
posted 15th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Kylees Mama:</b>" Peyton0112, you need to read the rules of this forum. On another note, I'm sorry you have to go through this OP. It's never an easy decision. Good luck in whatever you choose. <3 *tons of hugs*"</blockquote>
She wasn't attacking. It may not have been what OP was asking for, but she wasn't mean or combative.
quoteposted 15th Jul '12
and by the way at the top of the forum it say:
"Give support, share your story, grieve, and/or discuss abortion survival issues in a civil manner"
thats what i felt like i was doing. Stu Padasso WHATEVER you decide im sure you will do whats best for you! and if i offended you then please forgive me. Ive been here before and it wasnt but just a couple of weeks ago, so the best of luck to you mamas. Trust me, the situation does get better no matter what. We come out and rise on top of anything or any situation.
quoteposted 15th Jul '12
Quoting peyton0112:" and by the way at the top of the forum it say: "Give support, share your story, grieve, and/or discuss ... [snip!] ... to you mamas. Trust me, the situation does get better no matter what. We come out and rise on top of anything or any situation."
I must have read what you wrote the wrong way. I say the capitalized adoption and kinda went from there. Excuse my lack of reading skills.
posted 15th Jul '12
Quoting Kylees Mama:" I must have read what you wrote the wrong way. I say the capitalized adoption and kinda went from there. Excuse my lack of reading skills."
It's understandable. No worries.
posted 15th Jul '12
Its okay!! I know this is not an easy thing to discuss because it wasnt with me. But when hearing about other people who could not have kids made me sad and helped me realize that whatever i felt i couldnt do someone else could. I apologize though if it came out as BAM!! that wasnt the intentions of it..it was more like an exciting thing like "hey here is an option that will help me and someone else". but i understand kylees mama. your cool.
quoteposted 16th Jul '12
Adoption isn't an option for me.
There's a lot more to the situation than just being pregnant. Any and all contact has cut off with my ex for my own safety.
quoteposted 16th Jul '12
But thank you for your support, I have considered all my options and I know this is the best choice for my situation.
quoteposted 16th Jul '12
Its all going to be okay. I know sometimes it can probably be overwhelming but no matter what, we have to be strong and that is exactly what you are doing. In the end, you have final say so over any and everything you choose. No one knows the situation as well as you do ya know. Dont feel bad about the situation just breathe relax and know that you are being a mom and making a decision that you feel is best. which all moms do in any situation regarding their own! Dont worry as i have said before missy, you got this.
quoteposted 16th Jul '12
Quoting peyton0112:" Its all going to be okay. I know sometimes it can probably be overwhelming but no matter what, we have ... [snip!] ... you feel is best. which all moms do in any situation regarding their own! Dont worry as i have said before missy, you got this."
Thank you, I hope so. I just want this to all be over already y'know
posted 16th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Stu Padasso:</b>" But thank you for your support, I have considered all my options and I know this is the best choice for my situation."</blockquote>
Feel free to PM me if you need a shoulder to lean on. I just had my abortion on Saturday (14th), and it really wasn't as scary as I thought it was going to be. I also posted my story last night if you'd like to read that as well.
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