re: TMI but .. Chlamydia During early pregnancy?

Quoting ☮Sugar Magnolia:" Apparently "my body, my choice" only applies to abortion, because if a girl has sex with another dude while pregnant, she's "smurfing gross." I wish everyone could be perfect like some of you.  "

Well said.  

By the way I'm perfect...no one knows though..only me. haha.

Quoting Brittanylikesyou:" I never said I cared. I said the idea of sleeping around while pregnant with another mans baby is something ... [snip!] ... I still find that nasty? UM YEA! Just because someone doesnt agree with or wouldnt do something doesnt make them judgmental."

That's smurfing great, but I don't remember the OP asking for opinions on her sex life.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" That's smurfing great, but I don't remember the OP asking for opinions on her sex life."</blockquote>


I never directly even commented on that until that last person got all pissy.

whether she asked for opinions on her sex life or not kinda goes right out the window when she posts about it where thousands of people can see... youve got 50 some odd thousand posts, you know all to well what happens here. What do you honestly think is going to happen?

Regardless though, I never attacked op. If she's got an std then hey that sucks, good thing she's going to the doctor.

Quoting Brittanylikesyou:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" That's smurfing great, but I don't remember ... [snip!] ... Regardless though, I never attacked op. If she's got an std then hey that sucks, good thing she's going to the doctor."

  I know what 'goes on around here', but that doesn't make it right, does it. Just because something is happening doesn't mean it's ok.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>"   I know what 'goes on around here', but that doesn't make it right, does it. Just because something is happening doesn't mean it's ok."</blockquote>



Sure, thats fair and fine. I just hope you're exactly like this on every thread. Because way too often people insult and attack people just like op for really stupid smurf. And honestly what little I have said doesn't even get anywhere near as rude,judgmental, or bitchy as most people get considering I was never even rude to op.

I just don't understand why people can't just answer the OP's question, without throwing in their "opinion". Whether or not you approve of who she's jumping into bed with isn't relevant.

Quoting Brittanylikesyou:" I never said I cared. I said the idea of sleeping around while pregnant with another mans baby is something ... [snip!] ... I still find that nasty? UM YEA! Just because someone doesnt agree with or wouldnt do something doesnt make them judgmental."

  It's not judgmental asking why the hell you and the other people who care so much about her sex life in this thread give a damn about what goes on between her legs. Telling you and others who can't keep your opinions of said subject to keep it to yourselves or don't comment is also not judgmental. Apparently, if it's not agreeing with you, it's judgement. Which is utterly ridiculous.

How hard is it to answer the question asked and keep your nose out of someone else's vagina?

What happens when the mother gets dumped or cheated on by the baby's father 6 months into pregnancy. She then meets and marries a man who treats her like a queen, but it's a whirlwind romance and happens fast. So she's 8 months and going on her honeymoon... Is having sex with her new husband, not the man who fathered her child, nasty? If that's nasty, then I seriously give up. Because every woman deserves physical pleasure when they want it, HOWEVER they want it, whether it's by the father of their child or not.

Your opinion on this is the same as abortion equaling murder. Either way, you're judging a woman for the choice they CHOOSE to make with their body. Do I disagree with women who sleep around? You bet. SO's heart got broken by his ex-wife, who screwed half the damn city before he finally left her for good and dropped her smurf at her new boyfriend's house. I personally think that cheating or sleeping around makes all women look bad.

Do I care enough to judge when I find out someone's done it? With the exception of SO's ex, NO. (And I only judge her because she hurt a man willing to look PAST her cheating and work it out, just to put a fresh sausage link between her legs every few nights or so instead of honoring her vows or at LEAST cutting him loose before sleeping around) Why? Because, like abortion, it is her body, her choice, and what she does with her vagina isn't affecting me in any way.

Moral of this story? If your opinion does not have something to do with the topic and it keep it to facts, keep it to yourself. I like my opinions like I like religion and private parts. Everyone has one, but don't whip yours out and wave it/them in my face or shove it down my/my child's throat.

Quoting ShadyAmy:" Hey girls. Well.. I slept with an ex a few days ago and I think I may have caught chlamydia from him. ... [snip!] ... he said he will test me on wednesday. In that short span of time is chlamydia dangerous enough to hurt my baby ? im worried."

I will admit that I unknowingly got chlamydia before I got pregnant, and didn't find out until I was about 11 weeks, after my first pap smear from my OB. I got it from the baby's dad. My doctor gave me an antibiotic and some sort of shot with antibiotics in it so the baby wouldn't be born with it, even though I had gotten rid of it. If you KEEP the disease, it can cause blindness for the baby if born vaginally. As long as you get rid of it, and if they offer the shot, you and baby will be fine.