Quoting Brittanylikesyou:" I never said I cared. I said the idea of sleeping around while pregnant with another mans baby is something ... [snip!] ... I still find that nasty? UM YEA! Just because someone doesnt agree with or wouldnt do something doesnt make them judgmental."
It's not judgmental asking why the hell you and the other people who care so much about her sex life in this thread give a damn about what goes on between her legs. Telling you and others who can't keep your opinions of said subject to keep it to yourselves or don't comment is also not judgmental. Apparently, if it's not agreeing with you, it's judgement. Which is utterly ridiculous.
How hard is it to answer the question asked and keep your nose out of someone else's vagina?
What happens when the mother gets dumped or cheated on by the baby's father 6 months into pregnancy. She then meets and marries a man who treats her like a queen, but it's a whirlwind romance and happens fast. So she's 8 months and going on her honeymoon... Is having sex with her new husband, not the man who fathered her child, nasty? If that's nasty, then I seriously give up. Because every woman deserves physical pleasure when they want it, HOWEVER they want it, whether it's by the father of their child or not.
Your opinion on this is the same as abortion equaling murder. Either way, you're judging a woman for the choice they CHOOSE to make with their body. Do I disagree with women who sleep around? You bet. SO's heart got broken by his ex-wife, who screwed half the damn city before he finally left her for good and dropped her smurf at her new boyfriend's house. I personally think that cheating or sleeping around makes all women look bad.
Do I care enough to judge when I find out someone's done it? With the exception of SO's ex, NO. (And I only judge her because she hurt a man willing to look PAST her cheating and work it out, just to put a fresh sausage link between her legs every few nights or so instead of honoring her vows or at LEAST cutting him loose before sleeping around) Why? Because, like abortion, it is her body, her choice, and what she does with her vagina isn't affecting me in any way.
Moral of this story? If your opinion does not have something to do with the topic and it keep it to facts, keep it to yourself. I like my opinions like I like religion and private parts. Everyone has one, but don't whip yours out and wave it/them in my face or shove it down my/my child's throat.