re: TMI but .. Chlamydia During early pregnancy?

Quoting ShadyAmy:" Are you stupid?! DID YOU NOT READ MY POST carefully.. i APOLOGIZED for offending and i BELIEVE IN CHOICE... ... [snip!] ... you're making me out to be and if you were in my shoes after reading comments that I read.. you'd be on the defensive as well."

Was a sarcastic little apology...
Originally I stuck up for you actually so not really dramatic am I?
I understand being defensive but how does bringing up abortion have anything to do with this post... Sigh

Quoting ShadyAmy:" Are you stupid?! DID YOU NOT READ MY POST carefully.. i APOLOGIZED for offending and i BELIEVE IN CHOICE... ... [snip!] ... you're making me out to be and if you were in my shoes after reading comments that I read.. you'd be on the defensive as well."

31 damn years old here. I'm not a little girl.

And when somebody calls me a murderer for terminating the life of a child who was very ill....... I get a bit defensive. So go about your business. With an attitude like that, you have no place here.

If you really felt bad for what you said you would have apologized and then gone back and deleted your comments about abortions so no others could have seen them, but you didnt...... so guess what? We are free to still comment on them.

Quoting **milfshake**:" She wasn't whoring it up...she slept with her ex. BIG SmUrfING DEAL. And who the smurf are you? A saint of sorts?"

LOL. I said i WASN'T talking about OP. just the idea in general...sleeping around while pregnant...whether she was or wasn't I dont know, nor do i care.
But if you must know, I am pretty saintly.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Brittanylikesyou:</b>" LOL. I said i WASN'T talking about OP. just the idea in general...sleeping around while pregnant...whether she was or wasn't I dont know, nor do i care. But if you must know, I am pretty saintly. "</blockquote>


 

<blockquote><b>Quoting ShadyAmy:</b>" I apologize if I have offended the women who chose abortion but it is not my choice and im proud of that. ... [snip!] ... which i do believe in. My choice is mine. yours is yours. I asked for advice.. not stuck up bitches being negative and rude."</blockquote>


You can't say you believe in choice and then call abortion murder. Just saying.

Quoting Carol Woldring:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ShadyAmy:</b>" I apologize if I have offended the women who ... [snip!] ... being negative and rude."</blockquote> You can't say you believe in choice and then call abortion murder. Just saying."

Ding fries are done!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Quoting Carol Woldring:"You can't say you believe in choice and then call abortion murder. Just saying."

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This.

Sure I can. That's the greatest thing about choice. I can chose what I want to say and you can chose how you want to take it. ABORTION... for the last smurfing time is a CHOICE . I agree with choice. Does that mean I believe it is not murder? No It doesn't but that really wasnt the point of me bringing that up in my post. I was angry because of all of you negative smurfs in here and decided to go on the attack. Secondly im new to this site in particular so im not sure how to delete my posts. I will say it one last time. I am SORRY for offending you. You are not murderous sluts . Is that better?
Also to the lady who posted about terminating her pregnancy due to the baby being ill. I am very very sorry that you had to go through that. I am NOT heartless. I would have done the same , given your circumstance.
Abortion should NOT have been brought up and I apologize for doing so but I will not be your doormat to step on and judge because you feel I've made bad decisions and choices.

Quoting ShadyAmy:" Sure I can. That's the greatest thing about choice. I can chose what I want to say and you can chose ... [snip!] ... for doing so but I will not be your doormat to step on and judge because you feel I've made bad decisions and choices."

Thank you for apologizing.

And if you wish to delete what you posted in a thread, go to that post. Look in the center at the top of the post and you will see "edit". Click on that. Delete what you put there and just put ********* or something else in place of it.

Quoting Brittanylikesyou:" LOL. I said i WASN'T talking about OP. just the idea in general...sleeping around while pregnant...whether she was or wasn't I dont know, nor do i care. But if you must know, I am pretty saintly. "

Question: Why do you care what ANYONE else does with their vagina? Why does it affect you so? Why waste your time and effort judging anyone for their choices when in reality it will have no effect on your life?  

That's the best thing about judgmental women. Ask them over and over how someone else's choices are affecting THEM personally, and why they're bothered by it, and all you're going to get in return is 6th grade replies such as "Because it's nasty!" or some other crap. Because it's nasty is not a valid reason for you to care enough to judge someone to that extent.

And no one's a saint. I'm sure you've committed your fair share of sins and have your own skeletons in your closet waiting to pop their bony heads out.

Quoting ShadyAmy:" Sure I can. That's the greatest thing about choice. I can chose what I want to say and you can chose ... [snip!] ... for doing so but I will not be your doormat to step on and judge because you feel I've made bad decisions and choices."

That's awesome, but abortion isn't murder. Murder is a legal term, and since abortion is legal, it's not murder.

And to the rest of you: OP didn't ask for a lecture in YOUR morals, she asked about chlamydia and pregnancy. You should answer that question, and if you can't, move the smurf along. I'm sure you all have skeletons in your closets.

OP- I understand people were awful to you in here, but that doesn't give you free reign to be a smurf to them.

As for your question, as long as you get treated if you DO have chlamydia, you should be fine. Just make sure that you get seen immediately.

Apparently "my body, my choice" only applies to abortion, because if a girl has sex with another dude while pregnant, she's "smurfing gross."

I wish everyone could be perfect like some of you.  

Quoting Philosoraptor.:" And to the rest of you: OP didn't ask for a lecture in YOUR morals, she asked about chlamydia and pregnancy. ... [snip!] ... as long as you get treated if you DO have chlamydia, you should be fine. Just make sure that you get seen immediately."

This & Agreed!

Quoting ♥SportaFrodo♥:" Question: Why do you care what ANYONE else does with their vagina? Why does it affect you so? Why waste ... [snip!] ... sure you've committed your fair share of sins and have your own skeletons in your closet waiting to pop their bony heads out. "

I never said I cared. I said the idea of sleeping around while pregnant with another mans baby is something I could never do...I also mentioned that I dont see how a man can get turned on with a woman who has a stomach full of another mans child on top of him while hes going at it.
Does it affect me? Nope, not at all...why? because I wouldnt do it.
I said to each his own...
But just like you seem to feel that everyone is entitled to do what they want with their vagina, everyone is also entitled to have their own opinions on things. My opinion of sleeping around while pregnant isnt anymore horrible than your opinion of it being totally fine.
Youre being just as judgmental about my opinions on the subject...if not more, because I never was actually judgmental to OP.
I couldnt care less if OP wanted to go have sex with a horse...can I still find that nasty? UM YEA! Just because someone doesnt agree with or wouldnt do something doesnt make them judgmental.