threesome...

who has had one or more? were you in a serious relationship? how did it affect your relationship with SO?
oh and an edit... did you or SO or the 3rd party lay down any "rules" ?

Quoting Milk*factory*:" who has had one or more? were you in a serious relationship? how did it affect your relationship with SO?"

One.

Yes.

Didn't. It was fun, and that was that. Fun to talk about/fantasize about in the bedroom, and that's where we left it.

Quoting Milk*factory*:" who has had one or more? were you in a serious relationship? how did it affect your relationship with SO?"

My SO has had a threesome. I asked him about it. He said that it was with a girl that was friends with the girl he was dating at the time. After the fact he said it was VERY awkward and that the girl that he wasn't dating wanted to do it again and he didn't want to and she got all weird about it and it strained the relationship with the girl he was going out with and made it weird. He said he would rather have a threesome with two people he isn't in a relationship at all because otherwise it makes things weird after the fact.

Two.
Yes.
It did but that's only because my ex husband was a dumbass and didn't know boundaries in the first place. I would like to try it again someday.

I've had one but I was not in a serious relationship at the time.

I have not. I would only with someone we didn't know and hopefully would never see again.

Quoting [wtf] i'm heather.:" I have not. I would only with someone we didn't know and hopefully would never see again."

Definitely the way to go.

Had one. I wasn't seeing anyone at the time. It was with a friend and his wife. There were no rules.

i couldn't if i was in a relationship with someone. maybe if i was single. but theres no way i could watch my husband with another woman and not want to just strangle her. :/

Lots. But with the same guy. Its my husbands best friend. Now we're all in a love triangle. My husband is my husband. And his best friend is my boyfriend. dont judge us, it works for us.

Quoting Military Wifey:" i couldn't if i was in a relationship with someone. maybe if i was single. but theres no way i could watch my husband with another woman and not want to just strangle her. :/ "

It doesn't have to be another woman....just saying.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" Lots. But with the same guy. Its my husbands best friend. Now we're all in a love triangle. My husband is my husband. And his best friend is my boyfriend. dont judge us, it works for us."

lol wat?
and everyones okay that way?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" lol wat? and everyones okay that way?"</blockquote>



Lol yep. its crazy to believe. But it was all my husbands idea.
Hes been best friends with this guy for 15 years. It works perfectly actually.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" lol wat? and everyones okay that way?"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... to believe. But it was all my husbands idea. Hes been best friends with this guy for 15 years. It works perfectly actually."

weird. no offense but how does it work exactly? like do you live with them both? or just one. idk guess im kinda curious how you work that.
if it works for you all.. so be it

<blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" weird. no offense but how does it work exactly? like do you live with them both? or just one. idk guess im kinda curious how you work that. if it works for you all.. so be it"</blockquote>



We all live together, we even all sleep in the same bed. My husband goes to work at 6 so I hang with my bf till 730. Then I go to work. Ny bf works nights so I have the evenings with my husband. Only rules is.. I dont do anything with my bf when my daughters around. She doesnt need to see that. Any other questions? Im not offended bc its our choice, and we're all happy with it.