re: threesome...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Olga Lopez:</b>" I would rather have another girl than two guys and me js "</blockquote>


Well each is to there own.

My hubby and I have had a few threesomes with a guy he went to college with. His friend (guy friend) is really nice, sweet, considerate and we spend a lot of time with him. It has not changed anything. We see him like twice and month and it can be very exciting and has since spiced up our marriage.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Olga Lopez:</b>" I would rather have another girl than two guys and me js "</blockquote> Well each is to there own."

I think your situation is neat! If it works it works and nobody should judge you!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Erica! Jake & Abby's mom!:</b>" I think your situation is neat! If it works it works and nobody should judge you!"</blockquote>

Thank you. Nice to know not everyone is judgmental. And acceot our decision.

the only way i'd want to have a threesome is with 2 dudes and DH would never go for that   lmao

I've had one. I wasn't with either. It was with 2 dudes

I had one with my ex bf and my childhood best friend, she cheated on her boyfriend to do it and we were very drunk and knowing it was a fantasy of my ex's, we all did it. We ended up breaking up because after that, I guess he felt it was ok to go out and screw other chicks and I would be fine with it because we had the threesome, he ended up cheating on me after that day with over 10 girls that he met online and my best friend and I aren't to close anymore because she ended up gaining a girl crush on me and I couldn't do that, we now see eachother maybe once or twice a year lol. If my hubby and I were to do it, it would be with someone we didn't have to see or hear from again. my sister and her husband are swingers and it has got to the point where the only reason my family keeps in contact with her is because of my nieces. that is awesome if you can have a relationship like that and everything work out, not very many people can do that at all.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kylie's ... [snip!] ... we finish I roll over, and its my husbands turn. just to.clear things up my hisband and bf never do anything together. Lol"

i have to say i think i would be ok with this. me and my husband are pretty open as well. we have talked about it before

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Erica! Jake & Abby's mom!:</b>" I think your situation is neat! ... [snip!] ... and nobody should judge you!"</blockquote> Thank you. Nice to know not everyone is judgmental. And acceot our decision."

like I said its ONLY weird to me because I have never... known it. but if it works for you and you all are happy then great nobody can say anything! its kinda neat how it all works out for you guys. when I say its weird I am not meaning in a bad way, I just never knew anything like it. kinda neat in a way.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Zav'sMama815:</b>" i have to say i think i would be ok with this. me and my husband are pretty open as well. we have talked about it before"</blockquote>



Thats awesome. I hope if yall ever decide to do it, it works oht for yall. (:

<blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" like I said its ONLY weird to me because I have never... known it. but if it works for you and you all ... [snip!] ... out for you guys. when I say its weird I am not meaning in a bad way, I just never knew anything like it. kinda neat in a way."</blockquote>


I understood what you meant. (: it is weird.and different. But we love it. We told my bfs mom and my mom this weekend.

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" like I said its ONLY weird to me because ... [snip!] ... I understood what you meant. (: it is weird.and different. But we love it. We told my bfs mom and my mom this weekend."

how did you tell them? did they kinda already figure it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" how did you tell them? did they kinda already figure it?"</blockquote>


All 3 of us went to his moms house. My husband trains his mom. Hes helping her lose weight. So we all went and she kept talking about this girl she wants him to meet. He said I dont need to meet a girl, I got one. His whole family was like who who. Hes very picky and hasnt had a girlfriend in years. So they kept asking questions like is she married he said yes. Does her husband know he said yes. Does she have any kids. He said yes. How many 1. So many clues. She asked whats her religion.. Hes like not sure, looked at me and said whats your religion. She was like huh? Noo way. We all were like yes. And explained our decision and how it happened. She pulled me aside. And said she always wanted her son to be with someone just like me because she really likes me, and shes glad its me. So shes supportive.

I told my mom and she just whatever makes you happy. And shes supportive. So good so far. (:

Quoting Kylie's Mommy ♥:" Lots. But with the same guy. Its my husbands best friend. Now we're all in a love triangle. My husband is my husband. And his best friend is my boyfriend. dont judge us, it works for us."

I'm kind of in a similar circumstance. My husband and I have been together for 15 years and I've had a few boyfriends over the past few years. I've been seeing one guy regularly for short while. My bf comes over when my husband is at work at night. He does not live with us. He comes over to hang out with us both when hubby is home. It's pretty relaxed. We do not do 3somes, but I have in the past with my husband and a different guy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Stacey30:</b>" I'm kind of in a similar circumstance. My husband and I have been together for 15 years and I've had ... [snip!] ... both when hubby is home. It's pretty relaxed. We do not do 3somes, but I have in the past with my husband and a different guy."</blockquote>


Thats cool. Do you sleep with both of them? Or just your hubby?