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Newborn CIO

posted 13th Jul '12
In your opinion, is it okay to let a newborn CIO? Why or why not?
If you didn't see a problem with it, and were shown research as to why it is bad, would you continue to do it?

This was sparked by another thread. I'm curious how many people think one way vs. the other.




ETA: Post and run. We have an ultrasound to get to.  
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 13th Jul '12
No no no. Letting a newborn cry it out is neglect.
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I have 1 child & live in Moncton, New Brunswick
posted 13th Jul '12
I'm against CIO for all ages. So...

Alot of threads I've been in, I've linked research & these mothers who CIO basically IGNORE the research....  
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 13th Jul '12
I don't think it's okay to let a newborn cio. They have no idea what is going on and if they're crying, it's more than likely because they have a NEED, not just because they feel like screaming.
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I have 3 kids & live in Hephzibah, Georgia
posted 13th Jul '12
No way in hell. It spent the last 9 months inside of me being cuddled and fed. It cries for a reason.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 13th Jul '12
Definitely not, and as far as I've noticed on here, very very few people try to defend it.
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I have 1 child & live in Dildo,
posted 13th Jul '12
No no and no, absolutely not okay. They are crying because they need something.
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I have 1 child & live in Virginia
posted 13th Jul '12
I am for CIO but a newborn is far too young.

They are scared and have no clue what is happening or going on around them. They need the comfort of their mother.
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I live in Michigan
posted 13th Jul '12
I don't think it is alright for a newborn to CIO.
They are crying for a reason at that age.
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I have 3 kids & live in Pinellas Park, Florida
posted 13th Jul '12
A newborn cries for a reason. Whether it be comfort, hunger, dirty diper ect..
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I'm TTC since September '10, have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Zimbabwe
posted 13th Jul '12
I think its terrible to let a newborn CIO unless you're at the point of frustration and you need a minute to gather yourself. I'm all for putting baby in a safe place for a minute while you get it together.

I believe babies learn to trust their parents and want to know that when they need them, they'll be there. CIO in a newborn can develop trust issues between baby and parent.
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I live in Georgia
posted 13th Jul '12
I don't do CIO for any age, but I don't think anyone should with their newborn. Thing is, when they're newborns there's no way to be for sure what they need and if they're crying they need something.
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I have 1 child & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 13th Jul '12
Not for a newborn no way!
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in North Carolina
posted 13th Jul '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" I think its terrible to let a newborn CIO unless you're at the point of frustration and you need a minute ... [snip!] ... and want to know that when they need them, they'll be there. CIO in a newborn can develop trust issues between baby and parent."
This.

Babies cry for a reason.
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I have 2 kids & live in Fucking, Austria
posted 13th Jul '12
No . The only it's "okay" is if you are about to snap and the baby won't stop crying so you just walk away because otherwise you might hurt the babe
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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
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