Quoting Ravey Candyass:" <blockquote><b>Quoting HybridMoon:</b>" I had complications with mine, and that "really ... [snip!] ... will sign the consent form for the pil (not her mother) but not for surgical. I'll tell her your story, and see how she feels."
Yeah not to sound like I'm trying to scare her out of it or anything. Lol. Most women usually do okay with the pill, but there is a risk of complications like there was with me, and when or if it happens, it is terrible to go through.
The thing about the pill is that the abortion lasts longer, and like I said, if you aren't confident in what you are doing, it can be really traumatizing to look in the toilet and see what has come out of you. I didn't know whether I wanted an abortion or not, but got one because of my DH who wasn't ready for kids at the time. It wasn't until after it was done that I seriously regretted what I did.
If her only option is the pill, then I hope you'll give her all the support she needs to cope with it. It is a very sobering experience, especially if it goes wrong. :[