re: So unprepared!

<blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" ... [snip!] ... an excuse to get together it wasnt about the gifts etc either. when we have our next we are still gonna have a celebration lol"</blockquote>



I think every baby should be celebrated. I was going to just do it at my house but it's not big enough. I'm glad she's helping, lol I can finally chill out a little.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer ... [snip!] ... I was going to just do it at my house but it's not big enough. I'm glad she's helping, lol I can finally chill out a little."</blockquote>




Seriously, the less stress the better! Im so stressed right now. I have mediation again next week for my oldest. Blah. I.pick her up from her dads today and its just stressful, lots of tension.

<blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" ... [snip!] ... mediation again next week for my oldest. Blah. I.pick her up from her dads today and its just stressful, lots of tension."</blockquote>




That sucks. I hate dealing with that crap. I'm about to take BD back for more child support then eventually get the custody agreement modified because he never takes him when he should.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer ... [snip!] ... BD back for more child support then eventually get the custody agreement modified because he never takes him when he should."</blockquote>



Its an annoying situation :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" ... [snip!] ... the custody agreement modified because he never takes him when he should."</blockquote> Its an annoying situation :/"</blockquote>


Well hopefully you'll be done with it soon. I hope everything goes the way you want!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer Casto:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting SailorJerry:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jenifer ... [snip!] ... situation :/"</blockquote> Well hopefully you'll be done with it soon. I hope everything goes the way you want!"</blockquote>



Thanks  

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" I'm stressing out pretty bad about this baby. I'm so unprepared. I got rid of everything I had with DS ... [snip!] ... do it for me. Sorry I'm just being a big baby about this, I'm just upset because nothing seems to ever go as planned for me."

I threw my own n some people thought it was weird but i thought it was fun planning it. and my mom helped buy the stuff. i didnt invite very many ppl i dont really have friends haha. and i didnt get much at all but it was still fun. n i did mine 4 weeks before my due date.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Adrienne & Aubrey:</b>" I threw my own n some people thought it was weird but i thought it was fun planning it. and my mom helped ... [snip!] ... ppl i dont really have friends haha. and i didnt get much at all but it was still fun. n i did mine 4 weeks before my due date."</blockquote>



Mine's going to end up being around then too if we still have it. I wish my mom or my future MIL were helpful people. My mom lives almost an hour away and is nuts, my future MIL was supposed to throw it or help but apparently she can't put down the bottle long enough to coordinate with people. Now I have a friend who is actually helping me, but we still aren't sure where we can have it. Another friend offered their house so I'm trying to get those two to talk about it ASAP.

i hope that you have the shower. I know its stressful. I am going to be 35 weeks tuesday my sis is throwing me one saturday. i hope she is prepared but i am not stressing. if i need to i am going to the consignment shops to finish the big items and buying the breast pump through online at walmart. we have a lot of bills and i know the most important items carseat and crib. I have a pack n play that was given to me and I bought a bunch of clothes here and there once i found out the sex. just keep talking to him and say babys going to be here soon. I didnt get any help on buying items from my SO so far. I have been doing everything myself.

<blockquote><b>Quoting tango25:</b>" i hope that you have the shower. I know its stressful. I am going to be 35 weeks tuesday my sis is throwing ... [snip!] ... say babys going to be here soon. I didnt get any help on buying items from my SO so far. I have been doing everything myself. "</blockquote>


Thanks! And I hope you have a nice shower. Yeah, I talked to him last night and said we really need to go buy the pack n play and he needs to talk to his dad about the crib. I said, if he's buying the crib that's great but he can't wait until I'm in the hospital having the baby. We still need to buy crib bedding and it'll need washed. He said we'll go shopping ASAP, hopefully next weekend he'll get at least one day off so we can go. I gotta talk to our friend today to see if she had any luck getting ahold of the other one about the shower. I just want this all to be planned so I can relax and be excited again.