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The longer you waited to get an abortion, was it harder and harder to go forward with it? Im not suppose to be getting mine for about 2 and a half more weeks, But I made an apt with a Doctor today. And I keep wondering, but I still feel like right now IS NOT the time for a baby. I have two sides fighing inside of me one wants to keep going and the other doesn't. Im not feeling like my head is gone anymore, But I'm starting to feel sad, unsure, and not so good. I'm very mixed about whats going on, I wish I knew the future, I feel like crap. I haven't looked in the mirror in a couple of days, I haven't put on anything but sweats, I've been snappy at the people around me. Everything is just wrong. I feel so gone

I'm sorry you are feeling like this   just remind yourself you are doing this because it is what you need to do. it's not going to be easy, just know that whatever emotions you feel are ok. good luck hun

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" I'm sorry you are feeling like this   just remind yourself you are doing this because it is what ... [snip!] ... because it is what you need to do. it's not going to be easy, just know that whatever emotions you feel are ok. good luck hun"

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U still have time to decided whats best in your situation....This is a life altering choice either way that can be clouded by rushing into a decision, listening to others opinions, and of course pregnancy hormones.
U seem to be having doubts.....mabe make a list of pros & cons, look into all the resources your state offers, and really think this over that way you can have some peace of mind that whatever u decide was an educated decision.

You need to make sure you are 100% okay with your decision before you go into it/

I was between 10-12 weeks when I had mine and I knew it was the absolute best decision for me. As sad as it made me, the thought of being a single, teenaged parent was far more sad and absolutely terrifying. I was NOT ready.

Do you have the option of talking to anyone? Perhaps a counsellor or someone who can help you sort out your feelings?

I think time can do two things for you... it will give you time to really think about what it is that you want to do and it will make you confident in that decision as well.

I waited 3 weeks before my last one and when the day came I knew both that it was what needed to be done for me and also that I would have a huge amount of regret. Regret for the choices I made to get to that chapter of my life.

Just remember that with this choice, if you choose to go forward with it, there is no turning back. Good luck to you. If you have any questions/concerns, I am here.