Quoting PA Mom:" Well I'm sorry you were offended. That wasn't my intention. I do think you're being oversensitive though. ... [snip!] ... in the grand scheme of your life this situation really is small and insignificant and won't matter a year from now, I'm sure. "
You suggested having someone LIE to my husband so things go my way. I'm not offended, I'm appalled you think lie is the right way to go about things. You also completely brushed off the fact that a child with special needs is involved and called it "petty."
I'm not fishing for sympathy. It's a complicated situation that you say you've been in before, yet you offer terrible advice. I was completely honest in my whole post, yet all you see is "wah, my child is different! pity me!"? I am trying to figure out how to ACCOMODATE my son, not baby the hell out of him.