Quoting Becca&Baby.:" So I'm young, and I'll admit.. I don't know everything. That's why I want your opinion. So I'm doin bad ... [snip!] ... no chemistry? I don't want to live a boring life.. But I gotta make something work for my baby. This isen't about me anymore."
Becca, First NO man is worth settling for. You're still young and hopefully have a LONG life ahead of you. Now, you have to think of this innocent baby through all this. If you're dedicated to parenting, then you can find resources in your area, I promise. You can get low income housing, free daycare, etc. to help you get started. Good luck to you hun!