Quoting 16&preg1:" I'm not sexually active I won't be in this situation until I get married....i guess that's why it's emotionally ... [snip!] ... don't think I'll want to move on idk if I'll keep it together. I guess I've gotta face my demon no matter how bad they are...."
Frankly, I think that is what gets people in trouble. Demons. I will only have sex once. Whats the harm? I will only smoke that glass once. I can't get addicted to meth that easy. I will only steal the one time. I won't make it a habit. I can drive drunk this time. I will make sure to never do it again.
The fact that you say you won't be in this position till marriage is good (with just one little tid bit, marriage doesn't make parenthood easier.) because that means you have some clear distinction in your head that you don't want to be a teen mom. Yay for you, nothing wrong with it but you personally carry the assumed stigma that comes with being a teen mom; being a HS student, no job, no money, not a strong support system. Some very naive girls look that dead on and still think it is ok to make a baby. Like things will just work out. No consideration for the life you made for yourself or that child. Love is all you need crock of s*it. You see life for what it is and know its not the right time. But for the love of god you had unprotected sex because you had a huge lapse in judgement. You are sexually active. There is no one and done; unless you absolutely commit to abstinance. Its alot harder than you think. I lost my virginity at 15 and went from 16 to 17 without having sex for the sake of not having it, it wasn't that I couldn't or had noone to have sex with... but I got a new bf who wanted sex and it was over in a flash. I def say more power to you if you want to abstain but at least come to terms with the fact that you may have sex again before marriage. You already did once, and you have to use protection. Not trying to be a ball buster, but you might not be pregnant. You need to consider the future both ways.