re: I think I know that I'm pregnant... I'm 16. Don't know what

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about118346.html
sorry if the link is wrong, but there is a thread that might be of some use. That's the I think I am pregnant thread on teen parenting. Could give it a spin and talk to some more girls in your shoes.

it kills fertilized eggs which is imo a baby at its early stages....

Quoting 16&preg1:" it kills fertilized eggs which is imo a baby at its early stages...."

Interesting....

Quoting *Mary Moon*:" sorry if the link is wrong, but there is a thread that might ... [snip!] ... use. That's the I think I am pregnant thread on teen parenting. Could give it a spin and talk to some more girls in your shoes."

ok thank you. That could be of help...

I need to take a test but I want to be emotionally safe when I do ir...

You'll never know that the egg is fertilized or not it can be 3 or 4 days until the egg becomes fertilized. Eggs can become fertilized all the time and never attach to the uterus. I'm Pretty sure the birth control pill does the same thing as the morning after pill. I guess it's all the matter of opinion. The choice is yours... Parent, abortion and adoption. Good luck.

yea I don't believe in many bcs either... Same reason but I have looked up some numbers that help all over the country which is helpful...i appreciate it the suggestion maybe I at least what the goal to do is....

First thing first...you need to take a test.

Quoting Pregnant Hitler:" First thing first...you need to take a test."

exactly!  

emotionally how do you handle it becoming a reality rather than a thought?

You've already even told what I was going to say so I won't echo.
Just want to say good luck with your decision.

Quoting 16&preg1:" emotionally how do you handle it becoming a reality rather than a thought?"

You take a test before you work ourself all up, over nothing.
if its negative-- from there, you have protected or no sex at all.
if its positive-- you make the best decision for your child. Adoption or whatever if be..

Quoting 16&preg1:" emotionally how do you handle it becoming a reality rather than a thought?"

The biggest thing is reconciling with the fact that no matter what you do, if you don't believe in abortion, you cannot change what is going on inside your body. No amount of stress or worrying or hoping or praying will change the state of your uterus. Save it for after you know you are pregnant or not. Plenty to worry about in that case; no sense in getting worked up if you don't even know. You can't change your fate sans abortion so calm down.

I'm not sexually active I won't be in this situation until I get married....i guess that's why it's emotionally painful. To admit that this is a possibility I probably won't get sleep because of it let alone when I see ar lines I don't think I'll want to move on idk if I'll keep it together. I guess I've gotta face my demon no matter how bad they are....

Quoting *Mary Moon*:" The biggest thing is reconciling with the fact that no matter what you do, if you don't believe in abortion, ... [snip!] ... in that case; no sense in getting worked up if you don't even know. You can't change your fate sans abortion so calm down."

yea I'll act as if it isn't a possibility until I have to....

Quoting 16&preg1:" no too scared to. But it's like I knew when he did it I was going to get pregnant. I just did . And ... [snip!] ... believe in plan b so I couldn't take it. But I'm stilllost on it all maybe with adoption I can have something figured out..."

...how could you not believe in plan b ?

...what ? I'm confused