Horrible day :(
posted 10th Jul '12
So I locked myself out of my house this morning with LO in his carseat. My house keys and car keys were on the same ring which was on the house. My mom has a spare but out of 5 people who live there not one was up to answer the phone. Eventually I called my girlfriend whp lives a few houses down from my moms and she went and got the spare and dropped it off! Ahh thanks goodness for good friends. But then see this on FB (my Dh) posted this.
Blaming me for your mistake.....gotta diff. scheldule wake up at 3 or 330 in the am supposed to get off at 1230 in the afternoon sometimes we work later that 1230... i take a nap and put the baby down for bed...baby wakes up in the middle of the night cuz he sleeps most of the day away with a 3hr. nap...but you blame me for my scheldule...money needs to be made...bills need to be paid...no free time for me...but i try and i try and no matter what your still not happy....i would do anything in the world for her and she takes me for granate....not anymore
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Your DH posted this on FB for all to see?
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Your DH posted that on Facebook...... about what?!
Did you blame him for locking yourself out??
What is up his butt.
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
I'd be pissed if SO put anything personal like this on FB. You need to have a chat with him ASAP.
And newsflash, no parents have sleep or all of the free time they want, it's part of being a parent! (To your DH, lol, not you.)
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Quoting *MommyLove*:" So I locked myself out of my house this morning with LO in his carseat. My house keys and car keys were ... [snip!] ... and no matter what your still not happy....i would do anything in the world for her and she takes me for granate....not anymore"
quoteI have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in
Floridaposted 10th Jul '12
Well thats really immature of him to plaster his feelings on FB but not have the balls to tell you how he feels. Do you take him for granted? If not then I think you need to have a discussion with him because telling others your dirty laundry is just rude. If he feels trapped then their are bigger issues at hand, what did he expect to happen? After you have a child you have to work, you dont get much free time...thats just life. He needs to suck it up.
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Your DH posted that on Facebook...... about what?! Did you blame him for locking yourself out?? What is up his butt."</blockquote>
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
I think anyone who posts personal problems and things like that on FB for all the world to see is incredibly immature :/
He needs a kick to the face.
quoteI have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in
Illinoisposted 10th Jul '12
I would be fk'ing livid if my DH posted that on fb for all to see..
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Well I did bitch at him because I hid a spare at the house for emergencies, and it was gone every since he got this new job where the shift is 4:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m.
He lost it. I have made a total of 5 keys I know alot but he or his brother has lost them all. And maybe where he thinks I take him for granted where I don't applaud him for the occasional bath or when he puts him down to sleep. All he has to worry about in the morning is getting himself dressed and to work. We started argueing cause he talks to me like Im a child. He said you need to start getting your ass up. I do. I also work 40 hours per week, wake up in the middle of the night everynight with lo while dh sleeps like a baby. Then wake up at 7:00 a.m. let the dog out, get lo a sippy, change his diaper, get dressed, get him dressed, get dog food and water, close all doors in house, make sure everything on the counters are moved so the dog doesnt get it and shred it, take lo to moms she babysits, haul ass to work, get off just for dh to nap and lay around until its time for bed again. ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh He does put him down like 2 or 3 times out of a week, but I stay awake until hes done because he passes out with lo in his arms.
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Ummmm what the hell? I'd be Hella mad
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Quoting *MommyLove*:" Well I did bitch at him because I hid a spare at the house for emergencies, and it was gone every since ... [snip!] ... does put him down like 2 or 3 times out of a week, but I stay awake until hes done because he passes out with lo in his arms."
He would be in for a rude wake up call if I were you.
(Was you? Were you? Grammar fart.)
quoteposted 10th Jul '12
Yeah he is. Im thinking about staying at my moms for a few days. And what pissed me off and these smurfing girls on his fb liking the status and commenting aww I love you Shane. Ughhh Im just so mad and being pregnant on top of all of it doesn't help because im sitting here trying not to cry. Im usually not a cryer, but lately my tears have their own mind.
quotesmurfs?posted 10th Jul '12
Quoting *MommyLove*:" Yeah he is. Im thinking about staying at my moms for a few days. And what pissed me off and these smurfing ... [snip!] ... of it doesn't help because im sitting here trying not to cry. Im usually not a cryer, but lately my tears have their own mind."
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He sounds like trash. Sorry.
quotesmurfs?posted 10th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting *MommyLove*:</b>" Yeah he is. Im thinking about staying at my moms for a few days. And what pissed me off and these smurfing ... [snip!] ... of it doesn't help because im sitting here trying not to cry. Im usually not a cryer, but lately my tears have their own mind."</blockquote>
Omg the fact that he aired yalls business for the whole world to see would piss me off so bad!! And then the girls liking it on top of that would make me livid! I would probably comment under his status and say something directed towards him AND the bitches liking it......but maybe that's bc I'm pregnant and hormonal and a little crazy. I don't post personal stuff like that, but if my SO did I would probably have to say something.
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