Quoting SKANT:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:</b>" I'm so sorry this is happening to ... [snip!] ... BEFORE the deployment. I just think now if he ever claimed PTSD that he would think he has an excuse to make it right."
Yeah, they always start out as "small things" trust me, the last year was the worst he ever was and never saw it coming. Yeah don't let him make excuses, and don't let him screw you up anymore than he already has..it will cause issues in future relationships. That's why I'm in therapy
but I can tell you're strong like me so you'll be fine.