No sexual feeling.

I had an episiotomy and my stitches fell out, ever since then, I have had no feeling down there at all. Has anyone else had this problem? Please tell me someone has!

Probably because the nerves were cut. I had a csection and my stomach is still partially numb 3 months later.

I tore up and it wAs really bad and I did have one stitch fall out but I'm still in so much pain in some positions of intercourse and I really can't feel that much (I'm starting to think ill never orgasm again) it makes me really sad and I feel so alone!

I was that way for a few months.

On the 17th illbe four months PP

i had 6 stitches something happen to me... give it time it will come back...

Does the pain go away or should we just avoid those positions? Sorry for tmi, it just breaks my heart that I'm 21 and ruined! All my friends who just had babies are in perfect working order -_-

Quoting Jessica Cerrone:" Does the pain go away or should we just avoid those positions? Sorry for tmi, it just breaks my heart that I'm 21 and ruined! All my friends who just had babies are in perfect working order -_-"

you should go back to normal im sure everyone is different about when they get back to normal... if it hurts then avoid that position...

It comes back. Don't freak out. And yea, if it hurts avoid it for a while. For me though, some positions hurt the first couple times but got better after that. Like the nerves had to adjust or something. A few places still hurt a little from time to time. Sex was different after baby for sure. It's still good though... Really good.  

I don't enjoy it at all and it sucks. My poor husband. Maybe I just haven't had it enough that's why I'm so sensitive. My husband has a really low libido so after the first four weeks (which wasn't hard for him at all) it's only been a handful of times

I definitely have to stay 'active' or I still get tender and I'm 13 months pp. But since my husband has an over active libido I am the only one to blame for any dry spells. In his opinion 3x a day might be enough. LOL

When I was pregnant I asked if we could do it every day and he laughed at me  . I'm pretty sure we just went almost a month without and he doesn't even think about doing it himself. It's so crazy!! He needs to take testosterone or something, but it's cool because I have a newborn that won't sleep and I work at home and he works 7 days a week 12 hours a day so when do we really have time?!? Hahaha

For the first few months after giving birth we took things really, really slow and used a smurfton of lube. The only position that was really comfortable for me was doggy style.
I hated it. Not only did things not feel good but there was this massive piece of scar tissue and I was positive the smurf was never going to go away.
But in time, everything went back to being just fine. You'll be fine, mama!

I feel the same.. I'm 18. I'm worried I'll never have an orgasm again. I know a lot of girls that have had babies and they're just fine. It kills me. I wish I could have sex again. I don't mind if it hurts for a while, it just scares me that I may never orgasm again. I hope things work out for all of you!