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posted 9th Jul '12
Thanks ladies <3
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
I have no advice other than never leaving the two of them alone again... although I'm sure you've thought of that already.
Sorry
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
I suggest your pedi. They can refer to a child psychiatrist.
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
Dont leave them alone and separate them. He is too old to be in the same room with her. I would also talk to him more about good and bad touches. You may also want to talk to a professional.
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
Gosh I don't have experience in this but I would probably freak the smurf out too. I know you asked if it has happened to him but maybe ask him how he learned about doing that?
I am sorry I can not be of more help.
quotesmurfs?posted 9th Jul '12
You need to talk to someone professional. He needs to be seen & talked to with
quoteI have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in
Illinoisposted 9th Jul '12
Oh man. I would suggest keeping them seperated, talking to a professional and maybe making her diapers more complicated to take off (like dress her in layers).
Sorry you're going through this but at least you caught it early and can be proactive in a solution.
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting ma ♥:</b>" I have no advice other than never leaving the two of them alone again... although I'm sure you've thought of that already. Sorry "</blockquote>
Yeah, I moved him into our room to sleep
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
I asked him all of the suggested questions.
We recently taught him the difference between girl parts/boy parts, etc, I'm hoping he's just curious. Gonna find a counselor or something.
I'm so concerned
quoteposted 9th Jul '12
Jesus, I am so smurfing sorry I cannot imagine what must be going through your mind.. I think with you recently teaching him new things, he may just be curious but I would definitely keep them apart till you can talk to someone professional about handling the situation. I love you
quotesmurfs?posted 9th Jul '12
Faith, I am so sorry. I agree with the ladies here.
<3
quoteI have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in
Illinoisposted 10th Jul '12
It sounds like he's curious. If it were between him and another little girl (not related) I think people would shrug it off a bit more... because it'd be just that, curiosity.. which kids go through. but since it's his sister, people are worried.
Has he been taught what is okay and what isn't okay between relatives? He may just not know that that isn't okay. I'd get a second opinion from a psychiatrist, but I wouldn't go as far as saying something major is going to happen later in life from him doing this.
Love you, Faith<3
quoteI'm TTC since November '12, have 2 angel babies & live in
Cleves, Ohioposted 10th Jul '12
Thanks girls <3
Chels, Jamie, Sam, love you.
I'm just so overwhelmed. I'm trying to think of anyone and anything "new". It just seems too odd to just be curiosity.
And Sam, yeah we've talked to him about all of that.
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