Quoting shes.so.vain:" If you have your child in a daycare so you can run errands, make appoints, go to school etc, thats one ... [snip!] ... I've seen way too many nanny-cam horror stories to ever want my DD in daycare, even if I need to go out and do something. lol"its really not that big of a deal what other people do with their kids. they are safe and taken care of in day care, thats what should matter.
Quoting CrapBag.:" its really not that big of a deal what other people do with their kids. they are safe and taken care of in day care, thats what should matter."
Quoting shes.so.vain:" True, but me personally, I couldnt do it. But to each their own."
Quoting CrapBag.:" there are a lot of things other moms do that I could never... but it doesn't bother me. like being ... [snip!] ... kids need their friends at day care. but I don't sit around and think other moms are ridiculous for their choices to stay home."
Quoting CrapBag.:" when I am on maternity leave, my kids will be in day care (not the newborn, but the other 2). Is this ... [snip!] ... will be a period of time where I won't be paid and we will be using our savings account to suppliment DH's income when needed."
Quoting Jas ♥:" Makes me feel smurffy but my kids actually had developmental issues from staying at home with me. ... [snip!] ... and fights me when its time to leave. Some kids don't want to be around their mom or dad ALL day, they get tired of them too."
Quoting Blythe.:" If you don't mind me askin what were their issues? DD stays at home all the time"
Quoting A❤T=P[Bun in th Ov:" You are trying to make the OP something it was not, you are infering a lot. Your situation is clearly different and in no way what the OP was talking about."
Quoting Jas ♥:" Communication. Its from not being around other kids on a regular basis. Ever since they've been around ... [snip!] ... oldest will not sit and learn with me, she just can't focused. She's better stimulated in an environment with other children."
Quoting CrapBag.:" are you the one I go to to find out what I am allowed to post or what follow up questions I can ask? jw."
Quoting .Me.:" Yes. You weren't aware but she was the one who wrote the actual hand book."