Quoting Mama to William + 1:" She won't always be a little kid. At some point she will get curious, no matter how much of an smurf ... [snip!] ... want to know him and his family. I was 15 before I met my father or his family. I'm glad I knew I had a sister prior to that."
I know she won't always be a little kid. I am actually very open with her knowing that whole side of the family. She calls her grandparents on that side whenever she wants to, but it is always a one way thing. They never call her or anything. As far as her dad goes, she hasn't talked to him in over 4 months and that is by his choice. I am very open with her about where he is and why he is there and not here. The reason that she keeps in touch with her older sister is because of the little girl's mother and I keep in touch. My ex also has nothing to do with that child. I guess I kind of feel that if I give it a couple years, him and his gf won't be together and she will come around and want her kid to know who her family is, which I would of course be open about that. But as of right now I just feel that there is really no point in it. My daughter will never see this baby anytime in the near future, and she doesn't talk to her dad, so he will never tell her, and his gf has no interest in trying to get to know my ex's children.