re: I don't want this baby.

Quoting Let Me Tell You My Secret:" I've read that alot of girls say it feels like a miscarry more then of an abortion when they take the pill. And the sites say you have to give a medical report anyways."

That is what I have always heard. I know it would be hard to lie to him, but in this case, I think that would be your best route, kwim? I'm sorry, love  

Quoting Kristin Ray:" Maybe you should consider adoption. I would def give yourself some time to let it sink in. I could never ... [snip!] ... mine. I hope you figure out what you want and that you can stop with the worrying and stuff. Goodluck. PS. Talk to someone."

I wouldn't be able to go the whole pregnacy and just give it away. And I only have told two people in my life. Husband and a friend and I think someone may think I am pregnant.

Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Let Me Tell You My Secret:</b>" I wanted to have a baby sometime ... [snip!] ... a baby now,get it terminated.It's not as though HE will be going through any physical/mental/hormonal trauma to get one>:-(."

I'm fearful that I may of hurt the baby and I cannot see myself being able to take care of it if I did. I guess I would be more open to keeping the baby if I was not doing these things but I have been drinking heavily and stacking. My body and mind just can't handle it right now.

Quoting Moses.:" That is what I have always heard. I know it would be hard to lie to him, but in this case, I think that would be your best route, kwim? I'm sorry, love  "

I am just lost.

Quoting Moses.:" There is a sticky in AS with the rules of AS. I suggest some of you go read those before commenting again."

I read the sticky. I didn't say anything against her decision. I was just confused with what she was saying in her OP.
I think that if you are not ready for a baby, but are nervous about the different procedures maybe going to a clinic and discussing if you can still take the pill. I hope for peace in whatever your decision is.

Quoting leighleigh111:" I read the sticky. I didn't say anything against her decision. I was just confused with what she was ... [snip!] ... maybe going to a clinic and discussing if you can still take the pill. I hope for peace in whatever your decision is."

I wasn't directing that towards you. It was a general comment.

I think you should also try some counseling to get the root of your drinking and excessive dieting and not eating. And the pros and cons list sounds like a good idea however you may only think of cons with the frame on mind you're in.

Quoting leighleigh111:" I read the sticky. I didn't say anything against her decision. I was just confused with what she was ... [snip!] ... maybe going to a clinic and discussing if you can still take the pill. I hope for peace in whatever your decision is."

I don't believe I found anything wrong with your comment. I don't think it was even modded.

Quoting Mama2WinterGirls:" I think you should also try some counseling to get the root of your drinking and excessive dieting and ... [snip!] ... eating. And the pros and cons list sounds like a good idea however you may only think of cons with the frame on mind you're in."

I 100% know why I am doing both things. And I have no insurance and theres no way I can pay for it out of pocket.

Quoting Let Me Tell You My Secret:" I 100% know why I am doing both things. And I have no insurance and theres no way I can pay for it out of pocket."

good luck could u qualify for medicaid ?

Quoting Let Me Tell You My Secret:" I 100% know why I am doing both things. And I have no insurance and theres no way I can pay for it out of pocket."

Try talking to just anyone about it online, at home, friends, family. Theres alot of ladies on here that'd be willing to talk.

Quoting Mama 2 Blake:" good luck could u qualify for medicaid ?"

I was on it, Then we turned in our 6 month review last year and was cut off, then I applied again and was denied. And we make more now then we did then so Im sure we don't qualify even more so now.

i believe everything happens for a reason and if you got pregnant maybe you should have it but thats my opinion just think real hard about this and talk to your husband make sure he is honest with his feelings and it wont put a strain on your relationship if you get rid of something he wants and IF you do opt for abortion find the safest route..good luck with your thoughts =)l

My cycle is every 38 days. Will the dr go by the normal every 30 days or will he go by my 38 days?

Quoting Jerseymama:" i believe everything happens for a reason and if you got pregnant maybe you should have it but thats ... [snip!] ... if you get rid of something he wants and IF you do opt for abortion find the safest route..good luck with your thoughts =)l"

thanks