Quoting anonymom + 1.5:" How are you splitting your time this year? Last year, Z's dad wanted nothing to do with her... This ... [snip!] ... etc and now that she's bigger I'm thinking he may want more involved, but I just don't know. SOrry I'll edit OP."
Cora's dad and i work together really good.
Generally, the day OF the holiday, Cora is with me. She goes to see him the day after, or the day before. This is cause we usually go out of town on the day of the holiday
however, if we don't go out of town, I let Cora go to his house for the holiday
Like I said, we work together really good about stuff like this.
If you go to court, the judge will set up holiday visitation, if you guys can't work it out peacefully