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I'm not meant to be a mom

posted 6th Jul '12
I feel like I did something wrong... I had cramps last night they woke me up and I went to the bathroom and there was blood like I was having my period. I had 2 tests pregnancy tests that came up positive and no period for 2 weeks late... I went to the dr. there was nothing they could find so my baby's gone. And preg test came back negative. But I've had a blood test confirming I was pregnant and a hpt that was positive... I was pregnant. I'm just sad I can't believe it's over and I never get to meet my baby. I just wanted to hold take care of and love her and all I got was less than 2 weeks of an emotional rollercoaster. I somehow feel my parents caused this. I think I stressed too much. I feel like I'd still be pregnant if they didn't have to be so cruel... I don't really know what to do from what to think. and wonder why it happened... I can't stop crying about it but no tears will bring the baby back. No one wanted me to have that baby and I don't get what the point of getting was all for?
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Needles, California
posted 6th Jul '12
I'm sorry that you're hurting. You're 15 you have plenty of time to be a mom when the time is right.
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I have 2 kids & 2 angel babies & live in Marine Corps Base Camp Pendleton, California
posted 6th Jul '12
They probably don't want you to be a mom because you are 15. Trust me, wait a while.. I had one at 18 and it was hard enough. Sorry for your loss.
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I have 2 kids & live in Mississippi
posted 6th Jul '12
I'm sorry for what has happened, but being stressed out alone won't cause a miscarriage. You still have your whole life ahead of you.
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 6th Jul '12
not to that baby not every baby's the same...
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Needles, California
posted 6th Jul '12
Sorry for your loss, you are so young just enjoy being A teenager for now! There is plenty of time to have a baby when you are more ready.
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I have 1 child & live in New York
posted 6th Jul '12
hunny dnt feel bad u have plenty of time to experience being a mommy my older sister carried her baby for 9 months and the night before she was suppose to have it she miscarried. dnt stress yourself out it will make u hurt even more.
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I have 1 child & live in Springfield, Ohio
posted 6th Jul '12
technically I'm no longer 15 but I guess go ahead...
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Needles, California
posted 6th Jul '12
I'm sorry for your loss. Miscarriages happen all the time for no reason at all. Give yourself some more time to enjoy your teen years before having a baby
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I have 1 child & live in Chelsea, Alabama
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posted 6th Jul '12
Quoting newteenpregmom15:" I feel like I did something wrong... I had cramps last night they woke me up and I went to the bathroom ... [snip!] ... no tears will bring the baby back. No one wanted me to have that baby and I don't get what the point of getting was all for?"

just because youre bleeding, doesnt mean that youre not still pregnant....
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posted 6th Jul '12
Quoting newteenpregmom15:" technically I'm no longer 15 but I guess go ahead..."

Then why did you change your username to have a 15 in it? It didn't a day or two ago.
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 6th Jul '12
Quoting Sam ☼:" just because youre bleeding, doesnt mean that youre not still pregnant...."

If her ultrasound showed nothing, and her pregnancy test was negative..
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 6th Jul '12
I am sorry that you are hurting, there is nothing that anyone can say to you to make it any better. You are young but you still have feelings. I miscarried my first baby at twelve weeks, then a year later I got pregnant again. Your body is probably not ready for a baby or there was something wrong with the baby and it rejected it. With time your heart will heal and I am sure that someday you will have another when the time is right. Don't blame yourself and don't blame your parents... sometimes it's just not the time. Good luck and God Bless.
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I'm due October 3rd (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Jacksonville, Arkansas
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posted 6th Jul '12
Quoting Vindictive:" If her ultrasound showed nothing, and her pregnancy test was negative.."


my comprehension skills fail. i didnt read that closely  

oh yea, then, not pregnant... sorry OP to be confusing.
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posted 6th Jul '12
Sorry for your loss OP  
but I agree with everyone. I was pregnant at 20 had a stillborn at 21 and instead of being smart and enjoying be young for a bit longer I got pregnant 3 months after I lost my daughter.

Now I;m 22.. It's not easy I'm a single mom cause his father dipped out on us, I work I go to school and I take care of my son.
hanging out with friends? that rarely happens.
sleeping more than 5 hours? ... hahah yah right.
seriously.. enjoy being young and able to do whatever you want
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I have 2 kids & live in Illinois
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