re: Evening Primrose Oil or castor oil

Quoting 30 weeks w/ #2:" Apparently she thinks that you should only care about something if its affecting you in some way. I guess I forgot how selfish this whole world has gotten to be."

Haha, I'm selfish because I don't agree with jumping someone's smurf ?

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Is it valid? You think she's going to ... [snip!] ... yes she really is a stupid bitch. It's not hard to see that. Why are you trying so hard to defend the moron in the first place?"

It's the principle.

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" I'm just surprised with her attitude. Lol I didn't realize people who have been here for years liked playing captain save a ho. Whatever, lol I guess I'm just a big ole meanie  ."

Cute. I'm not trying to 'save' anyone. It's just ridiculous seeing thread after thread go to TDC because of the god damn bleeding hearts on here.

Quoting Bethy-poodles:" So, I'm confused. Did you two ladies get attacked for not defending the woman that wants to give birth a month early? "

It's not about defending her or not. It's the execution. 'You're a selfish bitch!' doesn't accomplish anything. If you seriously care, why not give information in a respectful manner?

Quoting Philosoraptor.:" Cute. I'm not trying to 'save' anyone. It's just ridiculous seeing thread after thread go to TDC because of the god damn bleeding hearts on here."

I would say us all calling OP ignorant and selfish wouldn't put us in the bleeding hearts category  

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs Mia Wallace:</b>" Me too!  "</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... but maybe two people had the same opinion of this chick. Lol idk how pro-life vs pro-choice came into play either, weird night!"

Comprehension problems. Pro-choice came in because it's her body, and her choice.

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" I would say us all calling OP ignorant and selfish wouldn't put us in the bleeding hearts category  "

Yeah it does. 'The poor fetus!'

Great, if you give a smurf, inform her, not jump on her.

Im gonna give her the benefit of the doubt, given the fact she could be doing research before it all which would take me at least a few weeks to go through everything i could find on this subject finding what works for some women and what doesnt work and what could cause problems i would like to say that nothing you try will work 100% some methods being dangerous to you and/or your child i would not try at all aka castor oil....it causes severe diareah and can cause dehydration which is bad for both you and your LO unless you are going into labor nothing will work some things work to speed up labor but nothing will actually put you into labor all you can do is wait or talk to your doctor about it at your next appointment to see what he/she could do for you but also all of these mothers are correct being premature any ammount of time can be dangerous because babies develope at different rates and whats safe for one child could be dangerous for the next all you can do is try to relax take a warm bath or get a massage or something just dont do anything that could risk your childs life because in the long run it would hurt your children more if something happened to your LO now than not taking them to the park today

<blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Comprehension problems. Pro-choice came in because it's her body, and her choice."</blockquote>



Did pro-life and pro-choice not start as abortion standpoints? Since when did pro-choice suddenly turn into a giant parenting overhead? Not everything is on the same level as abortion so why throw everything into one ball of IDGAF it's your body, your choice?

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Comprehension problems. Pro-choice came ... [snip!] ... Not everything is on the same level as abortion so why throw everything into one ball of IDGAF it's your body, your choice?"

Because it's lame to call yourself pro-choice only if you agree with the choice?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Cute. I'm not trying to 'save' anyone. It's just ridiculous seeing thread after thread go to TDC because of the god damn bleeding hearts on here."</blockquote>


It's just like any other thread where the OP makes an ass out of themselves. People explain why they're being stupid, OP comes back with an even more ridiculous comment, so on and so forth. Then it goes to TDC. You saying people should not respond in that manner is about as useful as the BG women are bitches threads. Is it going to change anything? No. So if you don't like it, why read it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Because it's lame to call yourself pro-choice only if you agree with the choice?"</blockquote>


Ok, but last I checked nobody here claimed to be pro-life or pro-choice. So how was that even relivent?

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Cute. I'm not trying to 'save' anyone. ... [snip!] ... about as useful as the BG women are bitches threads. Is it going to change anything? No. So if you don't like it, why read it?"

Goes both ways, doesn't it  

Quoting Jenifer Casto:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Philosoraptor.:</b>" Because it's lame to call yourself pro-choice ... [snip!] ... Ok, but last I checked nobody here claimed to be pro-life or pro-choice. So how was that even relivent?"

My original comment.

Quoting Philosoraptor.:" Because it's lame to call yourself pro-choice only if you agree with the choice?"

I already said I wouldn't be able to go through with an abortion. That doesn't mean im automatically pro-life.