how much people p**s me off for being a young mam

thinks its funny how people can juge you because your a young mam when they know nothing about you i.e what you do for a living or how you were brought up or why you have your children so young anyone else young with children or is it just me??

Quoting Kirsty Oneil:" thinks its funny how people can juge you because your a young mam when they know nothing about you i.e ... [snip!] ... a living or how you were brought up or why you have your children so young anyone else young with children or is it just me??"

 

this is not going to help  

  You're 21?

All you can do is let it roll off your shoulders and ignore them. Nothing you say will change what they think about it. It's just about proving the stereotypes wrong.

If you know that what they're saying isnt true, then quit worrying about it. Being a grown up means accepting that there are rude people out there. Toughin up, buttercup.

Quoting Ninja Shahinda:"   You're 21? "

I think in the UK 21 is what we call 16 and pregnant???

Quoting Kirsty Oneil:" thinks its funny how people can juge you because your a young mam when they know nothing about you i.e ... [snip!] ... a living or how you were brought up or why you have your children so young anyone else young with children or is it just me??"

Not to say that all young moms are ill equipped for the task of parenthood, or immature, but proper grammar and spelling can't hurt.

A. This post wont help at all. Makes you look kind of stupid actually.
B. Youre supposedly 21? Um thats not very young so why complain.
C. Learn how to spell/type.

It's all mind over matter- if you don't mind, it don't matter. If you're not falling into the stereotypes, then you have nothing to worry about. Let it be their problem for being judgmental instead of yours for being hot under the collar.

Quoting Kirsty Oneil:" thinks its funny how people can juge you because your a young mam when they know nothing about you i.e ... [snip!] ... a living or how you were brought up or why you have your children so young anyone else young with children or is it just me??"

Im 19 and about to have my first baby sep 2nd. SO is 23 and this will be his 2nd baby.

Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:" All you can do is let it roll off your shoulders and ignore them. Nothing you say will change what they think about it. It's just about proving the stereotypes wrong. "

i have   if there calling me there leaving someone else alone lol

Quoting Bethy-poodles:" Not to say that all young moms are ill equipped for the task of parenthood, or immature, but proper grammar and spelling can't hurt. "

Why do you have to classify yourself as a "young" mom? Just be a damn mom.

Quoting Asia marie:" I think in the UK 21 is what we call 16 and pregnant???"

yer sort of

I had my daughter at 18. When I was at the mall last week I seen a young mom and I felt embarrassed. For her, and for myself.