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re: Some girls! tsk tsk tsk! mini rant*

posted 11th Jul '12
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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 12th Jul '12
Quoting lisα:" "


Yep, Boy do I know the feeling. -_-
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posted 12th Jul '12
Quoting JosieandtheherpescatsTMI:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Used in a derogatory manner, you cannot use ... [snip!] ... at university would sort her out, all though I'm pretty sure that don't happen either! Hooray for the uneducated, vocal masses!"



You're a smurfing moron. How do you like that!?

I am actually very educated, and I did in fact go to college. & maybe if you went too, you would realize that they don't have a class for "stupid crazy dumb bitches who rant on & on about nothing worth my time". Although I am sure if they did you would the first one to sign up.

Now if you actually read my response to that girls comment instead of shoving your head so far up your ass, you would see that she explained it in a better manner then you did or im sure ever could.

Stop trying to insult me when you look like an ass yourself.
I get the whole "point" you are trying to make. I JUST SIMPLY DON'T GIVE A SmUrf! Just like you don't give a smurf about what I have to say.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 12th Jul '12
Quoting JudiAndPeridots:" I don't blame you one bit for not taking this seriously. I mean, I won't lie. I do enjoy a bit of ... [snip!] ... end we need to respect and acknowledge as well as accept others' opinions without writing others off. It's just how life is."


Hahaa, who doesn't enjoy a bit of 'drama'. It keeps this site entertaining sometimes. & you're 100% right, with some girls on this site, as you can clearly see here, it's all about insulting someone who doesn't see things the same way as they do. Which to me is w.e., everyone is entitled to their own opinion as far as I am concerned. But it is a double standard in this case as, I am not entitled to my opinion nor are you apparently and we will get rude comments & get bashed for it , but yet woman are entitled to wear w.e. they and shouldn't have to expect a rude comment and men should know not to disrespect woman just because of how they dress............ do you see what I am saying. Because I know THEY won't even though it is very clear the hypocrisy that is seeping out of this whole thing. & it makes their whole point of view laughable.
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I have 2 kids & live in New York
posted 12th Jul '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" Wow... that's smurfing funny. I have a picture of me in a bikini at a rave, and a picture of me with ... [snip!] ... Because I'm PROUD of my body. Which we should encourage of our fellow girls. But I guess deep down I'm just acting whorish, eh?"


I completely missed this comment. So sorry.

Perhaps I should have been more specific when I used "bikini" as an example of acting "whorish".

Of course, it would be pretty...blatantly judgmental and stupid if one were to think that wearing a bikini alone is 'acting whorish'. I'm honestly kind of surprised that it was easy to assume that this is what I thought of women who wore bikinis, but whatever.
It's not generally wearing the bikini that makes you whorish, it's more of why and how you wear it. My fourteen-year-old cousin wore one because she liked it and wanted to outgrow a one-piece, my mother wanted to wear one to be comfortable. I'm sure your reasons were casual ones as well.
Some wear bikinis to be purposely revealing, and to show off their bodies. Or for blatantly sexual purposes at times. Now this may not be fall under 'whorish, I'll admit. But it is blatantly seeking attention, and this attention will surely come from the opposite sex.
My apologies, I perhaps should have elaborated on the "bikinis" scenario. :/
quotesmurfs?
posted 12th Jul '12
As for the other points (I had to make a new comment because I couldn't remember what points you mentioned specifically and had to go back to your post);

Of course we can appreciate our bodies. I see no reason why a woman or young girl should not have any kind of love or fondness for her physical appearance. That's not the problem to me. I'm stating that the ways in which we express or show off our bodies in situations such as the one OP described involving her FB friend will bring about feedback from others, negative or positive, whether we are prepare ourselves and accept it or not.

I also want to say that one's clothing isn't what solely influences me to decide whether a girl is acting slutty or not, of course the number of men a woman sleeps with (among other attributes) plays a role in it, too. Certainly didn't mean to give off that impression...
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posted 12th Jul '12
Quoting Miss Ashley +2:" Hahaa, who doesn't enjoy a bit of 'drama'. It keeps this site entertaining sometimes. & you're ... [snip!] ... it is very clear the hypocrisy that is seeping out of this whole thing. & it makes their whole point of view laughable. "


Lol, I thought the same thing for a moment. At one point it confused as to why a woman could post a FB pictures with her boobs hanging out of a shirt or tank top for all to see, and a man can't leave sexually explicit comments to them or a woman can't shame her for posting them, yet someone couldn't give their opinion without being judged as a "slut shamer" or whatever.

I didn't and still don't think the people acting this way are blatantly hypocrites. But it was well evident that a case of double standards was held on this topic; we can't pose like hookers in pictures on FB or myspace and be judged, but someone could give a different damn viewpoint on OP's question and get holy hell from others, lol I don't even know if they realized that was happening, lol!!

..And a person wants to explain or correct what I just said above, they're free to do so. This is simply the strong impression I've picked up from them, is all.
I can understand feeling strongly about your stance on something, and thus this will make you a more passionate and perhaps a bit relentless when debating perspectives that oppose the particular opinion that you hold on this topic. But sometimes in discussions like this, people need to just chill.
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posted 12th Jul '12
Quoting DisneyMommyTTC#3:" I dont think you have a firm grasp on what being a whore means, or what the Westboro Church is. Please, stay in school."


Missed this one, too.

My aunt happens to be a lesbian, and is one of the people the Westboro Church degrade mercilessly and rant about while picketing at soldiers' funerals. So I beg to differ on that point.

As for 'whore', obviously our definitions can vary. There really isn't seem to be a concrete definition of the word 'whore' that everyone can agree on nowadays. If there were, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
But I seem to have the basics down for "whore"; sleeping with a large number of men, a prostitute, or to be considered sexually promiscuous.

And I was describing actions as 'whorish', not calling someone a 'whore'. There's a difference.

And no worries, I have one more year of attending Spring-Ford high school. Which, btw, doesn't really focus on teaching me what the hell a whore or the Westboro Church is anyways. =)
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posted 13th Jul '12
Quoting Miss Ashley +2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ßea:</b>" Pro SLUT? No, it's called Pro RESPECT. We're ... [snip!] ... I didn't egg anyone on until the end. Your disrespecting woman by calling us "slut shamers" as you are calling them sluts."

We're just repeating what you keep saying.  
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I'm TTC since January '01 & live in Japan
posted 13th Jul '12
moarrrr


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I have 1 child & live in Florida
posted 13th Jul '12
Quoting lisα:" moarrrr "

Overalls are sexy.
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I'm due September 11th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Syracuse, New York
posted 13th Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting ßea:</b>" We're just repeating what you keep saying.  "</blockquote>




No, you clearly aren't. If you were just repeating what I was saying we wouldn't be arguing. I haven't called anyone a slut nor a whore. And you just keep blabbling on about things that not once came out of my mouth smh.
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I have 2 kids & live in New York
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