the so called friend of mine!...long vent
posted 5th Jul '12
I'm so anooyed right now, I met this one girl here BG last year, became ''friends'' we even ended up having our babies around the same time, at the same hospital!. She invited me to her child first birthday party, and i wanted to go so bad, to see her little girl ''she's beautiful'' Unfortunally i couldnt make it because hubby got home really late from work, so i texted her and apologize and asked if it was okay for me to go take her daughters present the next day, i did not mind the 20 min drive. So she said yes!. Next day i asked what time was okay for me to go, also i explained to her i was ONLY dropping off her present and i would not stay because i had other things to do. She said fine, and i could go at 6:00pm. so at 5:00pm i get all my kids ready to go, i have 3 kids. got them in their car seat, i'm only 2 minutes away from her appartment (had my GPS) i texted her i was right around the corner, she reply ''im not home sorry'' i let her know well im here already, you knew i was coming, you could have let me know you were not going to be here. all i got as a reply was ''oh sorry'' i asked if there was any other person at home to receive the present, again all i got a simple ''no''. i was upset at the situation, as i was driving away i saw her husband drive by, so i figure i follow him and just give him the stuff... i talked to him, and let him know why i was there so he said ;; well, ''she's here at home with the kids,'' you want to come in?. At that moment i figure she had been lying to me about her not being at home:/ i just gave him the present, the guy very nice man, went inside his home and came back to tell me ''She doesnt want to come out'' SERIOUSLY??? gosh.. i cant believe this girl, made me drive all the way to her house, i have not talked to her since then, but she did texted me back a '' thank you for the outfit''. I bought her daughter a Nike outfit $40.00 so she could match my LO because she has the same outfit. I feel like this girl is so fake:/ she actually talks to me on fb like nothing happend. Shes constantly bragging about new stuff her kids got, new brand name clothing her kids wear.
im hurt because i hardly have any friends, im dedicated to my kids 100% of the time.
sorry so long,,!, this is the end of my vent.
posted 5th Jul '12
Uhm, you sound like a sweetheart and she sounds so ungrateful and rude!
In order to have friends, you have to be a friend, and you've certainly been one to her.
I don't have any friends who would do any of that for me.
I would try talking to her about how it made you feel, and if she's not receptive or apologetic, I'd find friends who appreciate your sweetness and thoughtfulness, friends that are worth your time.
I'm sorry though, that's smurffy.