My boyfriend...

Is so god damn moody these days. We haven't had sex in 9 days and he is acting like a complete dick about it. We got in an all out yelling, crying fight today about saying hurtful things to each other. I swear he is bipolar. He will say "i understand you're pregnant and not in the mood", then the SAME DAY he will be so rude about me not putting out. I love this child and wouldn't change the fact that I am having him, but I am so tired of feeling like an smurf for not wanting to have sex.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Stacks:</b>" Is so god damn moody these days. We haven't had sex in 9 days and he is acting like a complete dick about ... [snip!] ... and wouldn't change the fact that I am having him, but I am so tired of feeling like an smurf for not wanting to have sex."</blockquote>




Sounds like a man. Tell him to go whack off because that will feel just as good. Your pregnant, hormonal and don't have a sex drive..omg! If that is hurting his feelings..what can he really put up with??

It really makes me worry about once the baby is here. We can't have sex for 6 weeks! But he literally just walked in the bedroom and said "I'm tired of maturbating, are we going to have sex tonight?" I said "why the hell would I want to have sex with you after you were mean to me all day"...

My stupid boyfriend is the same way!>=|

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama Stacks:</b>" It really makes me worry about once the baby is here. We can't have sex for 6 weeks! But he literally ... [snip!] ... are we going to have sex tonight?" I said "why the hell would I want to have sex with you after you were mean to me all day"..."</blockquote>




It seems like if you don't put out..he will give out..there's plenty of girls who will open there legs like a 711... I hope he is more strong minded than that

My advice..meet him half way..give a little head but make sure he does too..I know how uncomfortable it gets and meeting half way will make you both feel better.

What a dick. DH and I didn't have sex for over a year once (deployed). After my son was born it was 13 weeks because he was deployed again briefly. 9 days is NOTHING so he really has no reason to complain. He's being an smurf. Why the hell are some guys such douchbags when it comes to sex??? DH and I haven't done it in 3 weeks because I don't like sex right now. He doesn't even have to jack off. Then again, he's probably just used to it because of our history of being able to just deal with it. And he's not a dickhead.

Quoting Mama Stacks:" Is so god damn moody these days. We haven't had sex in 9 days and he is acting like a complete dick about ... [snip!] ... and wouldn't change the fact that I am having him, but I am so tired of feeling like an smurf for not wanting to have sex."

I know how you feel. I honestly wish I would have done it alot more in the beginning of my pregnancy because now even though I want to have sex I cant because im so big and pregnant its hard to move around and be comfortable :/ I'd meet your boyfriend half way even though you may not be in the mood have him turn you on because you will have that 6 wk waiting period after baby is born.

im sorry hun im the opposite with so i want it all the freaking time like i could go multiple times a day and he dont want it at all we havent had sex in almost 2 weeks and he dont seem to care but its driving me nuts lol