"baby daddy" rant

Girl from Highschool: "Who's your babydaddy?"
Me: "I don't have a baby daddy, i have a husband."
Girl from Highschool: "Does your first child belong to him too?"
Me: "Yes i married a man and had 2 children by the same man, amazing isn't it?"

This probably seems rude to seem people, but the term "baby daddy" really bothers me!

I hate when people refer to their childrens father as their baby daddy. It's not that hard to add a couple of syllables to sounds not so trashy.

I had a child at 15, and after 8 years our relationship just wasn't working. Now I'm married and we're TTC. So I have a "baby daddy"... and I find it kind of annoying when people use it. I say "my son's father". Not "baby daddy".

I'm not a fan of the term.

Yeah I refuse to be known as baby momma I am not married but me and SO are very much together and happy so I dont know what people will refer to him as but I wont let it be baby daddy

Quoting sweetbea0906:" Yeah I refuse to be known as baby momma I am not married but me and SO are very much together and happy so I dont know what people will refer to him as but I wont let it be baby daddy"

"My childs father" is fine, i mean i just don't get it. It makes it seem to me as if girls thinks ALL GIRLS sleep with a different man everynight and jsut have a "baby daddy".

It annoys the hell out of me! My neighbor is almost 40 still living with her parents and will not refer to her childrens father as anything other than baby daddy, I want to smack her every time she says it...

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" I hate when people refer to their childrens father as their baby daddy. It's not that hard to add a couple of syllables to sounds not so trashy."

!!!!

Same here.

I refer to my sons father as that or my ex. Or if hes pissed me off badly that douche who knocked me up. lol.

Quoting sweetbea0906:" Yeah I refuse to be known as baby momma I am not married but me and SO are very much together and happy so I dont know what people will refer to him as but I wont let it be baby daddy"

I hate that term, baby mama or baby daddy. Sounds so smurfing ghetto.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" !!!! Same here. I refer to my sons father as that or my ex. Or if hes pissed me off badly that douche who knocked me up. lol. "

Even the term sperm donor doesn't bother me as much as that lol

Quoting R♥se:" "My childs father" is fine, i mean i just don't get it. It makes it seem to me as if girls thinks ALL GIRLS sleep with a different man everynight and jsut have a "baby daddy". "

yeah my baby is not here yet but when people ask me about differnt things concerning her and him I just say yes her dad is doing this or that.
For the people who use the term I want to know why? just curious

Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" Even the term sperm donor doesn't bother me as much as that lol"

lol. My sons father is listed as Sperm Donor in my house phone that doesnt talk but the other one its christopher. But in my cell phone its Dbag. But pretty soon, my son is 5, my son will learn how to read.. so yeah it needed to get changed. lol .

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" I hate that term, baby mama or baby daddy. Sounds so smurfing ghetto. "

It is ghetto as hell all I can think of is this song that was out when I was younger thats just my baby daddy lmao.

My So call his childrens mother a baby momma and vice versa I just think it is their way of belittleing each other imo their relationship is horrible then again I kind of think alot of black people use that term well I guess all people smurf I have hardly ever heard other races say baby dady until I got on this forum so no I guess itss a universal term lol

Quoting sweetbea0906:" It is ghetto as hell all I can think of is this song that was out when I was younger thats just my ... [snip!] ... of belittleing each other imo their relationship is horrible then again I kind of think alot of black people use that term ugh"

I wouldnt say all black people do.. I mean Im not black lmao. But I mean I just get the feeling that a lot of ghetto and pieces of smurf do.

I have a HORRIBLE relationship with my sons father but wtf. lmao.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" I wouldnt say all black people do.. I mean Im not black lmao. But I mean I just get the feeling that ... [snip!] ... the feeling that a lot of ghetto and pieces of smurf do. I have a HORRIBLE relationship with my sons father but wtf. lmao. "

Yeah I hit post too soon lol