Um yeah it is.  

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Yeah there is. He is abusive towards her. Emotionally and Physically. "

Woah.... looking is one thing. Abusive? Smurf that.... leave hun. That's not okay.

Quoting ♡Dulce Sunshine:" Okay ladies, I get it that guys look at other women all the time but how do you all deal with it? Like ... [snip!] ... staring some random chick down like he really thinks she's hot. I get mad extremeley quickly and feel do bad about myself.  "

My husband doesn't do this.
We all find others attractive...but to stare and look up and down like that and think sexually of another person is lust. And my husband and I both feel to Lust after someone else is a sin. That doesn't mean we both won't notice when someone is attractive (God made many attractive people in the world) But we don't "lust" after these people and stare in those manners.

I know this isn't the popular thinking but it's how my husband and I do feel.

Quoting NICKEL☮POLIS:" My SO doesn't have the balls to check out other women while we are together. I'm sure he's done it when ... [snip!] ... I'm not around but if I'm there he wouldn't dare. So long as I'm the only woman on his mind, and on his penis I don't care.  "

This to an extent lol. My SO is getting better with not making it noticable lol ... so i mind less. He use to be a pig about it and make me feel like smurf about myself... it happens occasionally but now he saves that for when im not around..most of the time. lol

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker]:</b>" I know he looks, we all do. If he's drooling in smurfing target over someone he's probably catching a smack upside the head though. Keep it subtle and we wont ever have a problem, lol."</blockquote>







No not all look. My husband doesn't look at women like that. Some do yes. He can look and appreciate how someone looks without getting sexual thoughts.

Quoting Baby_Majick:" <blockquote><b>Quoting [Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker]:</b>" I know he looks, we all do. If ... [snip!] ... doesn't look at women like that. Some do yes. He can look and appreciate how someone looks without getting sexual thoughts."

I said looks. Everyone looks. I didn't say fantasizes or any other smurf like that. If he tells you he never notices another woman ever, he's a god damn liar.

Quoting ♡Dulce Sunshine:" Okay ladies, I get it that guys look at other women all the time but how do you all deal with it? Like ... [snip!] ... staring some random chick down like he really thinks she's hot. I get mad extremeley quickly and feel do bad about myself.  "

He never does it evidently enough for me to notice.

If he checks another woman out, he does so discreetly. I know he must for a fact.. because he's a guy, but I appreciate him concealing it.

It bothers me when DH does it. He tries to be slick about it. But i know what he finds attractive. So if i see a girl that i know he'd look at, i just look at him and he just smiles because he knows he got caught. lol. Then he'll either make a joke about it or i make a smart ass comment.

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" You need to leave. I dont understand why you havent yet. "

what?

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Doe Eyed Dirty Lurker]:</b>" I said looks. Everyone looks. I didn't say fantasizes or any other smurf like that. If he tells you he never notices another woman ever, he's a god damn liar."</blockquote>




No my husband does not "look" at other women like that. Just because it's normal for men to "look" doesn't mean they do. Not saying he doesn't look. He sees people everyday. Just not in that googly eye kind of way.

Hasnt and doesn't bother me. To be honest sometimes I sneak some looks at the cashier or the guy in the line if he is hot.

I deal with it by accepting that finding others attractive on a sexual level is simply a part of the human condition and nothing more. Acting on it, however, is not okay. If I see my husband looking at a woman I'm more likely to "join in" than anything, lol. We both accept that EVERY person finds others attractive and don't hold it against one another and we both think it's kind of ridiculous when people get upset about things like this. I mean honestly, do they really expect their partners to suddenly stop finding other people sexually attractive just because he's in a relationship? Is he never supposed to look at another woman in a sexual way ever again? It just sounds so ridiculous to me.

He takes little looks im sure... Just like i take little looks at other guys. Its not like either of us wanna go home with these people...lol. its natural to look....

usually I get caught looking at the girl first  
Apparently I am not as slick as him lol
I guess it doesn't bother me unless he is trying to get her to notice he is looking at her... then it becomes disrespectful to me.
If I look, I would never allow the other person to notice me looking just out of respect for hubby. I do appreciate beautiful people.

Quoting ♡Dulce Sunshine:" Um yeah it is.  "

Honey, i thought you did leave