I was wondering If I could get some advice.
12 postsposted 10th May
A few days ago I did something that I now wish I wouldn't have. I'm 15years old, turning 16 in november.I'm pretty sure there is a possiblity that I am pregant, and I need some advice on what I should do. My mom and I were talking about what would happen if I got pregnant, she made it perfectly clear that she would either 1. and I quote" driveyour ass to the abortion clinic" or 2.. kick me out of the house (send me to an unwed mothers home and make me give the baby up).
Honestly I don't like either of those options. If I am pregnant I would like to keep the baby. But she said she would just kick me out.. What do you suggest I do, or say to her?
I'm going to wait untill I find out for sure before saying or hinting anything to her but I'm very worried.
quoteHonestly I don't like either of those options. If I am pregnant I would like to keep the baby. But she said she would just kick me out.. What do you suggest I do, or say to her?
I'm going to wait untill I find out for sure before saying or hinting anything to her but I'm very worried.
I live in Virginia
558 postsposted 10th May
legally, she cant kick you out. and she cant force you to get rid of the baby.
i think that if you are pregnant, maybe she will let up a little on it or not be so harsh. things happen, theres nothing that she can do to stop you from keeping the baby if thats what you want.
my mom was mean about that stuff before i got pregnant, but then i did, and she was a little easier about things.
but before getting too worried i would wait a couple weeks and take a test.
good luck :]
quotei think that if you are pregnant, maybe she will let up a little on it or not be so harsh. things happen, theres nothing that she can do to stop you from keeping the baby if thats what you want.
my mom was mean about that stuff before i got pregnant, but then i did, and she was a little easier about things.
but before getting too worried i would wait a couple weeks and take a test.
good luck :]
I have 1 child & live in New Hampshire
851 postsposted 10th May
i wish you the best of luck but she can't MAKE you give up the baby or get an abortion
quoteI have 1 child & live in Minnesota
4352 postsposted 10th May
i would find out first if you are pregnant, then you will need the suport from your mother she might not react like you think once it becomes real
quoteI'm due December 22nd, have 2 angel babies & live in Sheffield, United Kingdom
149 postsposted 10th May
Quoting Theres a reason for every: A few days ago I did something that I now wish I wouldn't have. I'm 15years old, turning 16 in november.I'm ... [snip!] ... or say to her? I'm going to wait untill I find out for sure before saying or hinting anything to her but I'm very worried.
Trust me on this. your parents reaction is way different when its a real scenario. My mom told me she'd beat the shit out of me, but she is totally supportave and 100% here for me, even my dad is ok with it now. believe me the reaction will be way different. Id just be honest with them and tell them the truth and asap. but if you dont even kno your pregnant yet then dont worry until you kno for sure.
I have 1 child & live in Washington
4719 postsposted 10th May
It's your decision to keep your baby. But you might want to look into all aspects of things before basing your decision. If you are pregnant and you do tell your mom and she still wont come around, then your going to have to figure out how your going to support the child. And if your mom or someone else isn't in a position to help you, then maybe adoption is best.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Warren, Michigan
posted 10th May
I'm pretty sure I am pregnant. I made the stupid mistake of having unprotected sex.. Thank you guys for the support.. I'm just really scared about whats going to happen.. If I am pregnant I am going to keep it no matter what she says.
quoteI live in Virginia
posted 10th May
Quoting Stace[SarcasticB]: It's your decision to keep your baby. But you might want to look into all aspects of things before basing ... [snip!] ... your going to support the child. And if your mom or someone else isn't in a position to help you, then maybe adoption is best.As much as it would kill me to give up my baby I might have to.. Do you think that if I did give it up for adoption I would still get to see it and be part of its life?
I live in Virginia
644 postsposted 10th May
Like others have said she can't make you give up the baby and she can't kick you out...but i think she would be mad at first but evenutally she will turn around and everything will be ok...just take her to all the doctors appointments and let her watch them do the ultrasound, that grandma instinct will kick in eventually and your baby will be super spoiled lol...but if you are and she still throws a fit try and do everything you can to support you and your baby, while staying in school...prove things to her and i bet she will lighten up
Good luck honey
quoteGood luck honey
I have 2 kids & live in New Mexico
posted 10th May
Quoting Theres a reason for every: As much as it would kill me to give up my baby I might have to.. Do you think that if I did give it up for adoption I would still get to see it and be part of its life?
Yes its called open adoption where you still get pictures of the baby and get to visit it and everything. you should really look into it.
I have 1 child & live in Washington
2092 postsposted 10th May
Everything happens for a reason and everything will work out in the end.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Ohio
posted 10th May
Quoting Steff: Like others have said she can't make you give up the baby and she can't kick you out...but i think she ... [snip!] ... to support you and your baby, while staying in school...prove things to her and i bet she will lighten up Good luck honeyThats another problem.. We are so broke. I was talking to one of my friends who is pregnant. she said that the ultrasound to find out the gender cost like a few hundred dollars.. and all the appointments and everything is uber expensive.. I don't know how were going to afford everything... We have no medical insurance
I live in Virginia
posted 10th May
Quoting *4weeks To Go*: Everything happens for a reason and everything will work out in the end.
I'm due December 22nd, have 2 angel babies & live in Sheffield, United Kingdom
posted 10th May
Quoting Baby Jalen's mommy(6 days: Yes its called open adoption where you still get pictures of the baby and get to visit it and everything. you should really look into it.I will look into it... I'm so scared..
I live in Virginia
posted 10th May
Quoting Theres a reason for every: Thats another problem.. We are so broke. I was talking to one of my friends who is pregnant. she said ... [snip!] ... and everything is uber expensive.. I don't know how were going to afford everything... We have no medical insurance
Ther are free clinics all over, and you can get lots of help from the state. also if you do decide to adopt most of the adopted parents will help with medical cost.
I have 1 child & live in Washington
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