how to tell your man is cheating

Okay so I know I could find ways to tell if your boyfriend/husband is cheating online, but I want personal experiences here. For the ladies who found out that your bf/husband was cheating, what signs did you see? How were they acting? Did you confront them or did they admit to it eventually?

I have my suspicions and am starting to wonder...

If you have a cell phone, check the records, and see who the numbers you don't know are. Goes missing. Gets defensive. "WORKING LATE".questioning you, your relationship, ect.

Grl there are so MANY ways I would tell you but I have bf next to me lol.

<Has never had this problem, but has very good friends who did. Also, suddenly insists on wearing condoms, sudden lack of interest in sex, being secretive and hiding his phone or the phone records, doesn't check his email etc around you anymore, won't answer his phone when it rings sometimes when you're around, etc. What signs are you seeing in your man?

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ Okay so I know I could find ways to tell if your boyfriend/husband is cheating online, but I want personal ... [snip!] ... they acting? Did you confront them or did they admit to it eventually? I have my suspicions and am starting to wonder...”

You could get a private invesigator...or spy on him yourself.

I was cheated on by my first bf in high school,and I found out because he got her pregnant....but I should have known before because he was very sketchy,didn't call when he said he would,accused me of cheating constantly,stuff like that.

Always telling you to let him know where you go at all times
So he knows where NOT to go.

My husband started accusing ME of cheating on him, that was what tipped me off. I followed him to his gf's house a few times, ya just gotta be sneaky!!

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ Okay so I know I could find ways to tell if your boyfriend/husband is cheating online, but I want personal ... [snip!] ... they acting? Did you confront them or did they admit to it eventually? I have my suspicions and am starting to wonder...”

Walking in and him minimizing his IM really quick like.

ur GUT! seriously go with it! bc most likely its right! never failed me!

ask for his passwords to emails myspace and what not and check them while he is there so he cant hide any

Even if the house is burning down ,he will try his best to log off his myspace/aim before you can even look at the computer.

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ Okay so I know I could find ways to tell if your boyfriend/husband is cheating online, but I want personal ... [snip!] ... they acting? Did you confront them or did they admit to it eventually? I have my suspicions and am starting to wonder...”

not answering the phone when it rings off the hook, not introducing to family, wont giive you passwords for stuff,

Quoting Ms. Von Fate:“ You could get a private invesigator...or spy on him yourself. I was cheated on by my first bf in high ... [snip!] ... known before because he was very sketchy,didn't call when he said he would,accused me of cheating constantly,stuff like that.”

LOL private eye...like cheaters

Asking him the where he went and what time several times..
to see if it makes sense and adds up
ex: i went to go cash my check at walmart ( at 1230 in the morning)
Stupid man...they close that part at 8 over where i am. And how did you get there without a car? Whose car where you in buddy?
lol

Quoting Mrs Hovey:“ LOL private eye...like cheaters”

I considered it once. lol I really like that show, too.