re: how to tell your man is cheating

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ he tries to tell me that I am wrong. He lets me look through his phone so I could've easily called those ... [snip!] ... asked him point blank, "are you cheating on me" and he kind of laughed it off and said no like I'm crazy (just might be lol)”

o god cheating friends are the worst influence but idk, just be upfront how you feel

Quoting ♥28DaysLeft&hearts:“ Well I let my b/f read your posts and from what you wrote, coming from a guys perspective...I hate to ... [snip!] ... said..."oh ya...he's cheating" I dont know what else to say, but a guys honest blunt opinion should hopefully make you see it.”

The last time he did this kind of thing, he acted totally different. He wouldn't let me see his phone, lied to me about who he was talking to, lied about where he was/had been...I am very sneaky though and went to his house early before he woke up and seen his text messages that were not yet deleted so that's how I found the truth about that. The ex and I even set him up. I kind of like being a detective even though I'm afraid of what I may find. LOLIf it's out there, I will find it eventually...

I just have to put my two cents in here. A lot of the things you mentioned him doing, sound a lot like my ex. When it all first started, I was sure he was cheating. He wasn't...he had starting getting really addicted to drugs. That would explain the selling things, money usage and what not, lack of sexual interest. Just throwing that out there. But I also agree they could be signs of cheating as well. Good luck w/ everything!!!!

Well, my situation was pretty simple.

Me & the girl started arguing.. and, well.. SHE started talking!
 

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ Okay so I know I could find ways to tell if your boyfriend/husband is cheating online, but I want personal ... [snip!] ... they acting? Did you confront them or did they admit to it eventually? I have my suspicions and am starting to wonder...”

With my ex husband I knew when he was cheating. The sex stopped, he became super distant with me, started fights for no reason and became very secretive. He put a lock on his phone so that I couldn't go through it which was totally odd and he'd constantly talk about a female co-worker... 2 weeks after my suspisions started, he told me he was seeing this female co-worker and that our marriage was over. TOTAL BLESSING! He was a total cut case from hell. So good riddens!

watching...

Quoting Amanda ;]~:“ watching...”

same here.

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ The last time he did this kind of thing, he acted totally different. He wouldn't let me see his phone, ... [snip!] ... I kind of like being a detective even though I'm afraid of what I may find. LOLIf it's out there, I will find it eventually...”

Haha.. that's me.. he calls me Private Eye.

Well I am going to answer to this just because I know what it is like to be cheated on and I knew what things to look for. I always told myelf that he would never cheat on me. Boy was I ever wrong. Now I cheated on him as well, but I had intentions of leaving him when I did it. HE told me after the first time that he would never do it again, and then I found out that when I was pregnant with my last son he had actually cheated on me AGAIN! Now I am still with him because we have 4 kids and 1 on the way and we are working on things. BUt I just knew that he was cheating, his whole attitude changed, accused me of cheating, would shut off his phone. But hehas a pretty stupid friend that left a message on his voicemail. His storied changed time and time again, so in my heart I knew that he cheated and prepared myself for it. It has to be the hardest thing ever to hear you SO tell you. That he shared things with another woman that he should only share with you. Best of luck, andif you honestly feel he did cheat then mentally prepare yourself and it will help you heal a lot faster!

he'll slip up somewhere eventually keep your eyes and ears open.
mine forgot to log out of his email and what did i find? PICTURES of him cheating on me (yes, in the act)

Quoting kaluvzmc:“ Okay so I know I could find ways to tell if your boyfriend/husband is cheating online, but I want personal ... [snip!] ... they acting? Did you confront them or did they admit to it eventually? I have my suspicions and am starting to wonder...”

well my boyfriend denies everything but i found out through his friends and people that seen him with other girls and caught him. i caught him myself by goin through his phone i found girls numbers . i also started to notice him leaving alot and not wanting me arond him as much. Then he would sometimes lie about where he was going and finally the truth came out of course he denies it wat men doesnt lol

Still haven't found anything...
He was gone for 6 hours today with his friends playing "disc golf" and never called me before he left or while he was gone....
I am still watching and keeping my eye out.