re: Behavioral Struggles Early.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥GarciaMommy:</b>" He's 10 months."</blockquote>




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Quoting [Camden's Mommy]:" uhm actually he does understand 1,2,3. or used to. and he is not young for any kind of dicipline, you ... [snip!] ... hit & do things he is not suppose to? no. Like i said he used to listen to it then just got up & decided to drop it."

LO is thinking... "yay mommy is doing something interesting". He's not old enough to cognitively process what it "means". You should inform yourself some on child development. I'm not saying this to be rude or talk down... I promise. But when I feel super frustrated with my child, it a lot to understand him better. Knowing the way he thinks in terms of his development and where he is at, will better help you in areas like this. Or really in any area. Sometimes my son screams/cry for things he wants, he's two. It annoys the smurf out of me and it overwhelms me very quickly. But knowing that he is two, he doesn't have the proper language skills yet (which is normal) and he doesn't have self control like that to be nice when he really really want something, it helps us understand eachother better. Mesh well. You should not be having behavioral struggles this early. It's too early to even tell if that is an issue.

Quoting [Camden's Mommy]:" uhm actually he does understand 1,2,3. or used to. and he is not young for any kind of dicipline, you ... [snip!] ... hit & do things he is not suppose to? no. Like i said he used to listen to it then just got up & decided to drop it."

You're in for a god awful couple of years if you think a 10 month old can possibly be that bad. Seriously, you're overestimating a 10 month olds ability to understand.

Quoting K[♥ E&C]:" My 4 year old is a monster. When he was 2 he was an angel. I <3 2's!"

I never understood where people got off saying the terrible twos. I thought once we got passed it I was set since he was soooo good lol

Quoting Rette Mich:" Ohh mine too! But now the little jerk has learned to rolls his eyes...grrrr lol"

  she started that at 3. I can't be bad at her. I'm a smart ass with eye rolling abilities too.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:"   she started that at 3. I can't be bad at her. I'm a smart ass with eye rolling abilities too. "

haha, yup! Every smart ass, eye rolling, stubborn little bit of my son is all from his mama!!
Gotta love it!

Quoting Melissa ღ:" No you should redirect him, not try and give him discipline he doesn't understand smh."

I can't stop looking at your avi   nothing like a man with a body and dance skills :drool:

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" I can't stop looking at your avi   nothing like a man with a body and dance skills :drool:"

Haha I know! I can't wait to see the movie!

Quoting Rette Mich:" I never understood where people got off saying the terrible twos. I thought once we got passed it I was set since he was soooo good lol"

Right? I didn't expect it to get a thousand times worse with sas, eye rolling, "Fine!", slamming doors, screaming at me because he's mad.. holy freakin moly.

He is 10 months old. He doesn't understand you counting to 3, he is too young or timeouts. Redirect him. How do you expect him to know hitting is wrong when his mom is hitting him? He is a baby, stop expecting him to understand and do everything you want...and stop hitting him. Damn.

Quoting Melissa ღ:" Haha I know! I can't wait to see the movie!"

I already did. lol I'm tempted to go see it again, just because

<blockquote><b>Quoting [Camden's Mommy]:</b>" uhm actually he does understand 1,2,3. or used to. and he is not young for any kind of dicipline, you ... [snip!] ... hit & do things he is not suppose to? no. Like i said he used to listen to it then just got up & decided to drop it."</blockquote>


As others have said, he's only 10 months old. A baby is not going to understand why you are spanking him. Of course you should tell him no, but then take the time to get him into a different activity. If he tries to grab something he shouldn't, take it away and put it where he can't get it. If he hits, tell him no and give him something to do. He is too young for smacking his butt, and smacking his hands is not going to do a damn thing at any age. You think he has behavior problems? No, he is just trying to figure out what he can do. He's probably smacking you for attention.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" I already did. lol I'm tempted to go see it again, just because"

It was good I take it? lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" It was good I take it? lol."</blockquote>


3 minutes in Channing tatum was butt naked... I'm sold lol.

Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Melissa ღ:</b>" It was good I take it? lol."</blockquote> 3 minutes in Channing tatum was butt naked... I'm sold lol."

Lmfao! I am sold too!