Quoting *Lolo*:" So im kind of sad. We were talking the other day and joking around that everyone would be going around ... [snip!] ... want to be around for the birth. Has anyone else had a similar reaction from your kids? how did you prep them or involve them?"
I asked my older daughter who was 13 at the time if she wanted to be there when her sister was born and she said "No thanks"...just not ready to see that". So I wouldn't take it as anything more than them just not being ready to see all that comes with child birth. Yes it's a beautiful thing and I understand you want your entire family to be apart of it, but I wouldn't force the issue. Just offer to answer any questions they have and maybe ask what makes them so uncomfortable with the issue