It never fails me, when people see my daughter's father, they immediately question if he just "stepped in" for the "real" dad. They don't believe that she is his. I know I shouldn't care, but to me, it's as if someone is scratching a chalkboard! It's not necessarily them wanting to know, but more so the way they ask / say it. Rude comments, & snide remarks are a daily thing, it seems like!
"Where's the milkman".
"Are you sure you brought the right baby home"
"Better go check on that"
& what really got to me:
"He's a nice man to take care of another man's mistake"
I might just go all ape on someone, one day! -______-
My daughter's father is African American & she doesn't favor him in the least. I presonally, can see him in her .. SO MUCH! She is very light, her hair has loose curls, her eyes are blue, etc. We have gotten a DNA test, because he questioned her being his, because of all the rude remarks & gossip. She is positively his, 1OO%.
Here are a few pictures of the 3 of us.