re: People really irk my nerves with this, (venting)

She's so cute!!!!!! XDD She may be light now, but watch how she darkens with age, or how well she tans when she gets older. ;) DNA is a strange thing. My S.O. is Dark skinned, dark eyed, black haired, and I'm light skinned, lighter haired, and have blue/green eyes. His family is hispanic for the most part, and mine is alllll white, so we can't wait to see how she turns out. X3

i'm sorry hun, i get the same thing and then some. i have people ask if all m y kids are mine, then they ask if they all have the same dad, THEN they ask if i'm still with him...  

its like if they all didn't have the same dad and if i wasn't with him who cares its not your business geez!

i'm gonna try to get a pic of my husband and our 2nd daughter up here (the one ppl question if its his..)

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the one on the right is my 2nd and she has blonde hair and blue eyes and is lighter than my other kids although shes very tan in this pic because its summer time  

My best friend is super white, blonde hair, blue eyes and her husband is Puerto Rican, really dark skin, dark hair and eyes. They had twins last year (there is a picture of them on my profile). One is complete mini-momma and one is mini-daddy. People doubt not only that they are twins, but doubt they're even related. DNA is crazy, tricky, and unpredictable! Definitely not as simple as the Punnett Squares we learned about in school made things seem.  

Quoting MommySpurgeonX4:" i'm sorry hun, i get the same thing and then some. i have people ask if all m y kids are mine, then they ... [snip!] ... has blonde hair and blue eyes and is lighter than my other kids although shes very tan in this pic because its summer time  "

Aw, adorable! She has a lot of his facial features!

I don't know why DNA has to make things so complicated sometimes though. . But I love my little girl regardless.

Quoting Meggggggo:" My best friend is super white, blonde hair, blue eyes and her husband is Puerto Rican, really dark skin, ... [snip!] ... tricky, and unpredictable! Definitely not as simple as the Punnett Squares we learned about in school made things seem.  "

Oh my! I remember reading up on stories of twins like this! It's so interesting how things happen like that. & btw, they are such little dolls! Too adorable! Aw  

Quoting Philosoraptor.:" *shrug* He's light skinned. My XH and I both have dark hair, and my daughter is blonde, heh. DNA is a funny thing."

my son has blonde blonde hair and my husband and i have dark brown hair. its crazy. people tried for awhile to say he wasnt my husbands but i have only ever been with him. and he looks just like his dad now. dont worry. kids dont always look just like thier parents. i look nothing like my dad but im my moms twin.

Quoting Brittany Pilgreen:" my son has blonde blonde hair and my husband and i have dark brown hair. its crazy. people tried for ... [snip!] ... like his dad now. dont worry. kids dont always look just like thier parents. i look nothing like my dad but im my moms twin. "

XH tried to say my daughter wasn't his  

I was like 'What color is your mom's hair?'

my husband has never questioned our boy to be his or this one. but im sure if people would continue he would start toi think differently.

he did have to get after his sister during christmas because she wouldnt take our son to play with the other cousins becasue she was saying he isnt my husbands. my Hubs about killed her that day.

people can just be rude. i wouldnt let it effect you. if he starts to think about it tell him to get a DNA test done

Just yell out a big SmUrf YOU to the ignorant asses who question him being the father of your child I personally hate having to justify any of my actions so I could only imagine how you feel having to justify to someone who is totally irrelevant that he is her father but just keep your head up because looks and seems like your doing a great job!

Quoting ToriDelanaMcGee:" Just yell out a big SmUrf YOU to the ignorant asses who question him being the father of your child I ... [snip!] ... is totally irrelevant that he is her father but just keep your head up because looks and seems like your doing a great job! "

Thank you! (:
It's so damn annoying. Especially because their remarks, made her father question her. It's bull, but at least now he & his family know the truth. It can just get so aggravating explaining it to people, & keeping my composure. Lol, ahhhhghhh.

People are ignorant as smurf sometimes.

My cousins are half black / white and they completely look like their mother, you wouldn't guess my (white) uncle had anything to do with them at all. My son is not my SO's child, SO is half Mexican, looks Hispanic and so do his kids and mine is a little blond haired blue eyed baby - people will literally walk up and ask if they all have the same dad. They obviously are not from the same parents, why the hell would you ask a complete stranger a question like that?

If I saw your little family, I would think "What an adorable baby" - not "is that the babies dad?".

Quoting Shelby&Star♥:" It never fails me, when people see my daughter's father, they immediately question if he just "stepped ... [snip!] ... his, because of all the rude remarks & gossip. She is positively his, 1OO%. Here are a few pictures of the 3 of us. "

My SO has a cousin who had a baby wit a black guy.... If he had not told me her father was black I would have never guessed. She's WHITE. WHITEST baby I've ever seen and has blue eyes and dark hair.

in my opinion being a child born from a woman who put up with this very nonsense from people who know my father, has copped this on rare acasion. now but it sticks to you throughout life like gavel in a scrape. I have dark blonde hair a button nose hazel eyes with a slant a dint in my chin and light skin. I look nothing like my father,he has brown wavy hair blue eyes is tall and has a roman nose broad cheekbones ect.
to be honest I'm that odd spin off child in my family who looks like my grandfather. so i know what its like to be your duaghter hearingt hose kinds of things being either said about myself or about my mother,good news is people do eventually shut up about it.

Another thing i also thought about is that people rarely look at things other than skin color. My cousin is black / white, but LOOKS black - but him and my son look SO much alike - take a picture of them both at 2, and their bone structure, nose, eye shape - all the same except that my cousin is dark with ethnic hair and my son id blond haired / blue eyed.

Quoting Bryony Burdell:" in my opinion being a child born from a woman who put up with this very nonsense from people who know ... [snip!] ... hose kinds of things being either said about myself or about my mother,good news is people do eventually shut up about it."

I really hope it stops, I don't want her to have to deal with it, the way people talk now. It's not her fault, it's merely DNA. So I am glad to hear it eventually stops.