How do people think

That it's an appropriate question to ask me if I'm still with the father of my child?
I swear about 75% of random people on the street ask me that.
I am getting to the point of wanting to hit people.
It's none of their damn business.

Ummm thats life if you are you are if your not your not

Why would people ask that??

lol i think that is kind of rude/personal too. but what i really hate is when someone is in a long term relationship and they get pregnant and you hear people asking "who's the dad?" when they clearly know he the long term bf is

thats a weird qeustion to ask someone. i would be a little offended. i guess. no one asked me that when i was pregnant

I never got that.

I hate when people see me and my son and then I talk to them, they call my ex my ex husband. Im like he wasnt my husband.

I am sorry, but I do not believe 75% of people you randomly meet ask you that. 75% of random people won't even tell you off if you piss them off, for not wanting to talk to random strangers, they're not all going to be up in your business caring about your baby daddy.

C.

I would tell them to mind their own smurfing business, honestly. What's it to them? Why does it matter?! That would piss me off.

I realize that's an exaggeration for dramatic purposes, but if it's even more than one person a week or so, I'll eat shoes. Random people do not just stop you on the street and ask that, unless by random people you mean people you know, in which case the issue is you know a lot of lame people.

C.

Quoting God:" I realize that's an exaggeration for dramatic purposes, but if it's even more than one person a week ... [snip!] ... and ask that, unless by random people you mean people you know, in which case the issue is you know a lot of lame people. C."

Eat shoes then.
Today: Random cashier girl at Publix
Yesterday: 2 of my mom's friends that she introduced me to at completely separate times of the day plus the girl working at the pizza place where we ate.
If it were people I know it wouldn't be so bad. I guess I live in a small mannerless town.

Quoting HippyMom:" Eat shoes then. Today: Random cashier girl at Publix Yesterday: 2 of my mom's friends that she introduced ... [snip!] ... at the pizza place where we ate. If it were people I know it wouldn't be so bad. I guess I live in a small mannerless town."

That doesn't surprise me that you would say 75%-especially if you live in a small town..I do too, so that didn't sound like you were exaggerating all that much. Lol. Where I live, that would sound about right. People are nosy, inconsiderate, manerless smurfs.

I have only had that question a few times. Its usually the elderly that ask if im married or if the father is still around. I dont wear a wedding ring so it doesnt really bother me coming from the older women. They assume he is not around because i usually have them out by my self. He works a lot to support us but yes we are together and we are married. A question we have been getting a lot together is do they both belong to you both. Lol one looks like me and the other looks like my husband. We both have dark brown hair and one child has light brown while the other is a red head. But they both have curly ass hair like me. Lol i dont know why people would ask such questions. Then they say well neither of you have red hair so where did this one come from. They are serious when asking that! Thats one question that does bother me. Then there are comments about me being pregnant again and not finding a daddy that will stick around. Like i said we are out by ourselves because he works a lot. You just have to ignore the dumbassness that people have. Lol

Quoting HippyMom:" Eat shoes then. Today: Random cashier girl at Publix Yesterday: 2 of my mom's friends that she introduced ... [snip!] ... at the pizza place where we ate. If it were people I know it wouldn't be so bad. I guess I live in a small mannerless town."

Your mom's friends huh? Sounds like your mom is talking about you behind your back.

C.

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