Quoting mama aℓex ♡+3:" Aw Ashley this breaks my heart Good to see that you are trying though! Me personally, I think youre a big girl, you should deal with the mom directly."
Quoting Emily Fried:" id invite them to the baby shower to be nice and wouldn't want them to get upset for not inviting them since the sister calls the baby her neice ."
Quoting ♥ darah ♥:" Leave them be until you can prove paternity to them. I would not try and contact them until baby is ... [snip!] ... family. If they miss out on things like the baby shower its their loss and those types of things can always be made up later."
Quoting Miss Ashley +2:" That's what I am thinking, at least send and invite and if they come they come if not then oh well nothing much i can do. "
Quoting mama erica.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Miss Ashley +2:</b>" You are all 100% right. I guess it's just ... [snip!] ... the info is their decision. I just need to take a step back & stop stressing them. "</blockquote> Exactly "