my sister just made life a thousand times worst but slightly

I get to stay with my sister for 2 weeks. I keep saying to her that I want to keep it... And she's the main reason I want to. And it makes me happier. Thing is on the bad side of things. I told her how I got pregnant and she and mom misinterpret the incident as rape. So that makes things worst sadder... I blocked my mom's number. But kind of would have lied if I knew better. It just sucks. Anything I say seems to go bad... Well I'm 16 soon so there's nothing I can do from here. Wish I could sleep for 5 years and wake up then when things aren't so smurfing complicated... I guess two shots is really not much... Just a rant...

I'm so sorry you're in this situation. I hope it all works out for you, and you have peace.

that's all I've wanted as of lately doesn't seem possible

i was just reading your other posts. have you decided yet? are you going to get the abortion next week or are you keeping the baby? im just wondering, being nosey

I'm not sure I don't really want to deal with my parents. I'll figure it out another day

In the end what is comes down to is what you want to do, not what others want you to do. If you feel you want to keep the baby and can and will be able to provide for him or her then by all means do it, but if you feel your not in that position to take care of another human being then go for the abortion. Ultimately its YOUR decision, and to be honest no one can force you to do anything no matter what. Good luck on whichever decision you make.  

yea but I've really just lost any chance of their approval and support...

Quoting preggoteenconfusion:" yea but I've really just lost any chance of their approval and support..."

im not trying to convince you of anything, but your mom will eventually accept it. whenever i need to get threw anything just think "this shall pass". nothing is a problem forever. it will eventually get better and you will find a way to get threw anything. your never thrown more than you can handle. if you were meant to be a mom you will be and if your not then only you would know that

First I want to make this clear, I'm not judging you.

Now onto my point. You are 15 going to be 16, and any right parent wouldn't approve of their daughter/s becoming pregnant or their son's getting someone pregnant. That's a given. Now with some parents they do come around to support their child's decision, but then there are others who don't. That being said YOU have to choose the best decision for yourself, and not allow others to persuade you into something you *might or might not * later regret doing. You are the only person who knows what your capable of. You are your own person and have your own opinions, and ability to think and reason. You need to think about every possible situation further on down the road, or coming up like e.g. how am I going to support myself and a child, will I be able to go to college and have a career, am I responsible enough to be a parent. All these will play a big factor in your life. Who knows you may prove them all wrong and be a fantastic, responsible, well educated momma, but it all depends on you. Yes, some people have done it and are doing it, but you yourself have to have the will power to push hard to achieve more that way you will succeed whether you keep your baby or not. I will say it will be hard, but if you put your mind to it you can do anything. OP you make the call no one else. Don't let others influence your decision.

Quoting love button:" im not trying to convince you of anything, but your mom will eventually accept it. whenever i need to ... [snip!] ... never thrown more than you can handle. if you were meant to be a mom you will be and if your not then only you would know that "

not with rape induced pregnancy and I guess really I'm just going to enjoy the time I have left and forget about her... I mean she's not here so why worry... Want to forget about her existence right now really...