re: Middle of the night sex

Quoting *H3aTh3R*:" Do you think the mental stimulation comes from positive energy that day or just his mentality all together before sleep.... I am about to start googling lol!"

For SO, it happens A LOT more frequently when we've gotten over a fight, or when we are in a really great spot in our relationship. When we're both really happy, no stress, etc.

or when it's been a while since we had sex.

Nice to know. I am going to Evaluate when it happens now and thanks ladies it's
Good to know I am not the only one. Tbh I was starting to think the only time he wanted me sexually was asleep because he was dreaming I was Another girl. Thanks for all your help. Knowing I'm Not the only one makes me feel like that is obviously not the case.

Quoting *H3aTh3R*:" Yes when he doesnt remember, and the look in his eyes when it happens looks like he is out of this world! ... [snip!] ... like he is out of this world! Creepy and I want to know why. I have never heard of this type of sex drive happening to a girl!"

In mine and my husbands situation, it's different. I'm the one who is in a "zombie-like" state having sex in the middle of the night. I don't remember anything about it the next morning, and he's just sitting there all high and mighty explainin, in detail, what we did. I don't know why it happens, it used to only happen after I would take Benadryl right before bed, but the last couple times it's happened has been completely random!

I wish he would.
He's told me that I try to do it now and then. I've woken up halfway through sex, and didn't know that I started it. I didn't mind though, I'm always up for sex  .

YAY we are normal!! lol

I think it's because they get hard erections during the middle of the night and testosterone increases at night.

Quoting *H3aTh3R*:" Why is it so common for a man to wake up in the middle of the night and want sex? I thought my SO was ... [snip!] ... husbands do it too. Is it because something in their body gives them a sex drive? Could they be dreaming? I am super curious!"

Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and want it lol....Guys when they lay down and are tired alot of the times will get hard ons from the blood rushing down there so they might wake up and have trouble falling back asleep and be like...hm well it's hard I might aswell! hahaha

Quoting emerald01:" I think it's because they get hard erections during the middle of the night and testosterone increases at night."

Never thought of that, they do always wake up with a nice hard on!