So... You meet this guy seems to be really nice and caring and whatever.. You meet, have sex.. BAM. Pregnant. But he has 2 other kids and you have one. After you find out that you were pregnant he tired to get his 3rd girlfriend pregnant. and tried to cover up the whole thing.

Then leaves you pregnant after you dont get the abortion [that he didnt want] for his 3rd girlfriend. Leaves until once a month until he cares about the baby. Then you choose adoption, told him he didnt have a choice.. even though he wanted to keep the baby and be half time parent... Jump forward til you have the kid and sign your kid away to a couple parents.
Then a month later you guys get back together for about 2 months. Then you tell him that he needs to step up and tell the world about your relationship. Then decides its not for him because the past is the past and you couldnt get passed it.. 2 weeks later he falls in love with this hs senior [he is 25; you 24]... then 4 months later you text him to ask him a simple question, andi then he tells you that he is stressed and upset.. and you finally tell him that you dont care.

Then you do a little bit of snooping and find out that his girlfriend is pregnant. and is due the day that you and him concieved your child. So their baby is going to be 16 months younger than yours is.

How would you feel?

[cats out of the bag, its about me lol.]

im sorry that you had to go through that with such an ass.. you need to drop him and move on.. if he has done it to you.. he is going to do it to someone else

I think someone might have gotten pregnant too fast...

Also this guy is a deadbeat sack of smurf

I'd feel like I needed therapy...and a drink. or multiple. And I'd feel like my therapist better figure out how to keep me from getting with a guy like this in the future.

I had a hard time following this story. I wouldnt get back with someone who abandoned me during a pregnancy and left me to deal with putting the baby up for adoption by myself. The fact that he's being pissy via text message, is like irrelevant in a way, he's a douche who has dumped you for someone else twice. you need to move on, mama!!!

trust me, I am going to scrap up a few dollars and get something strong. I havent really wanted him since beginning of march.

He is the biggest piece of smurf. I just want to drink myself to streaking the cul a sac.

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" I had a hard time following this story. I wouldnt get back with someone who abandoned me during a pregnancy ... [snip!] ... message, is like irrelevant in a way, he's a douche who has dumped you for someone else twice. you need to move on, mama!!! "

Im over him, Im just hurt about the situation, he cant keep it in his pants....

Yikes momma at least you don't have to deal with him now  

Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Im over him, Im just hurt about the situation, he cant keep it in his pants.... "

hopefully he is done spreading his seed too!!!

Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" hopefully he is done spreading his seed too!!! "

I think for my birthday I will be going to the mall where he works, find him and rip his balls out of his sac for my youngest son and all of his other kids..

I will smurf myself laughing if its another boy. lol.

  that is smurfing crazy she is pregnant. smh. how crazy.

Quoting ♥Love♥:"   that is smurfing crazy she is pregnant. smh. how crazy."

I know right!!!!!!!

Im upset, not that they are pregnant just because the fact that he is a stupid smurf. I wont be surprised if in a few years he will show up and have like 15 kids...

Bad choices on everybodys end really. Just sad.

I... Really couldn't follow this at all