You don't have to have a child to be a mother...Please look

People are mistaken that "Mothers" are those who have bared children..SO WRONG!!!.. Mothers are those who have love for a child that isn't still here.... mothers are those who would do anything to have a child, MOTHERS ARE THOSE WHO SHED TEARS WHEN THEY HAVE A BFN AND SAY TO THEMSELVES "MAYBE NEXT MONTH"!!! MOTHERS ARE THOSE WHO DAY BY DAY, TEST AFTER TEST, CYCLE AFTER CYCLE, CHART AFTER CHART.....KEEP GOING ON STRONG TO HAVE THEIR MIRACLES!!!

And so many that have "bared" children have abandoned them, aborted them , and left them to die in a trash can.. THOSE AREN'T MOTHERS!! Motherhood is not of the physical but of the heart!! anyone can be physically a mother...but not EVERYONE CAN BE AMOM INSIDE AND OUT!!!
I CELBRATE THIS MOTHERS DAY FOR ALL OF PHYSICALLY MOMS AND MOMS AT HEART.. ALL TTCers and "Mommys"...... I want to say HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!!!

aww girl, u post the sweetest things and it makes me cry how cute that was.

Thank you!

As an Angel mommy of 2, my heart breaks every mothers day. However, this mothers day. The hubby and I are going to enjoy our day and do something fun together. Why sit around and be sad all day..... We are going to celebrate together.

WOW!
Thats was beautiful!
I was TTC for 4 years before our BFP.
We also adopted a 12 year old....because his mom didnt know how to be a mother!
That was a beautiful post!!!!

Happy mothers day sweethearts!!! Mommys to children, to angels or to a dream baby...... All mothers to me!!! HAPPY HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!!!

Quoting ~Terra~ Lipstick Mafia :}:“ Thank you! As an Angel mommy of 2, my heart breaks every mothers day. However, this mothers day. ... [snip!] ... to enjoy our day and do something fun together. Why sit around and be sad all day..... We are going to celebrate together.”

We celebrate together too hun.. I too am a mommy of 2 angels and I have tears in my hear that I wasn't given the chance to give them all this love I have here for them.... but your angels are with Jesus and my angels..they catch butterflies and play catch and run around wonderful fowered prairies.....When we meet one day I know your angels and mine will come to us and say mommy we know how much you love us. We watched after you from here.
hugs
Ruthie

Ryan and I are celebrating too.

Your post gave me goosebumps, btw.

Happy early Mother's Day ladies!

Quoting Ruthie♥PCOS Momma:“ We celebrate together too hun.. I too am a mommy of 2 angels and I have tears in my hear that I wasn't ... [snip!] ... your angels and mine will come to us and say mommy we know how much you love us. We watched after you from here. hugs Ruthie”

Thanks!!!!  

So true and wonderfuly said!

Aw, Ruthie that was beautiful!!

You guys are well deservers of having a Happy Mother's Day!! It takes more than geeting pregnant and giving birth to be a real mother....

thats incredibly true.
I think anyone TTC and not giving up hope is so much more of a mother than someone who has conceived and then decided to abort their baby

Thank you Ruthie. You are such a sweetheart. HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!

I know what you mean. Mother’s day is a really difficult day. It celebrates what seems to be either an unattainable goal: having a family, or celebrates everything we have lost: a child. It's a day that shows society’s view that women who have children are special and valued, as well they should be. But no one tells a women in fertility treatment how special and valued she is.

There are "Mothers" out there who abort, abuse, neglect, and deny their children, yet Mother’s Day is their day because they are "Mothers." And then there’s the other group...the ones that may have empty arms but already love their child more than they ever thought they could love anyone. The ones that go through so much agony, hurt, and pain, all the doctor appointments, shots, pills, etc just to get the CHANCE to one day hold their child. We are mother’s, even if our arms are empty. Our lives revolve around our children, and we don’t even have them yet. If that doesn’t make us good mothers, I don’t know what does!!!

Quoting Mrs. Rachael:“ I know what you mean. Mother’s day is a really difficult day. It celebrates what seems to be either an ... [snip!] ... revolve around our children, and we don’t even have them yet. If that doesn’t make us good mothers, I don’t know what does!!!”

well said Mrs. Rachael!