re: Had a miscarriage in May

Quoting Sweetp87:" No I havent really had any testing done. Only the usual testing they do during your first few weeks of being pregnant."

Oh, I see. You said that your doctor said everything was fine, so I thought that meant you had some testing done. My bad.

I am so sorry for your loss.... I lost 2 angels with a matter or months. My first i didnt even know i was pregnant until i was miscarring and 4 weeks. I then did not get on birth control right away because we wanted a baby so bad. I then got pregnant almost right way again about a month later and i ended up carring my second little angel until she was 12 weeks! My uterus did not attach fully and i wasnt producing enough blood to keep her alive with it only being partially connected or at aleast that what the doctors said happened. They said it was probably because my body didnt heal right from the first miscarriage and recommended i wait for 6 months before i started to "try again." It was horrible experience! I took the doctors recommendation this time because i was so worried about lossing another one because i didnt listen the first time... But throughout all odd the birth control failed and i was pregnant again only 4 months after my last miscarriage... I am currently 32 weeks pregnant with a baby boy and things are goin well so far! I was very paranoid and scared throughout my whole pregnancy and i still that something might go wrong! All i can really tell you is fallow your instinct because only you know your body! Doctors can tell what they think but only you know what is right and wrong for your body! I had problems with my gull bladder after i miscarried the 1st time and i think that also had a lot to do with it but who knows. I wish you the best and again Im so sorry for you loss!!!

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" Oh, I see. You said that your doctor said everything was fine, so I thought that meant you had some testing done. My bad."

Naw that's ok. I guess he felt like he did not have to do any more test.

Quoting G.Quintana:" I am so sorry for your loss.... I lost 2 angels with a matter or months. My first i didnt even know i ... [snip!] ... 1st time and i think that also had a lot to do with it but who knows. I wish you the best and again Im so sorry for you loss!!!"

Im sorry for your loss as well. I hope the next time that I get pregnant that everything will be fine. I have decided that the next time that I do I am not going to tell ANYONE until after my first trimester.

Quoting Sweetp87:" Im sorry for your loss as well. I hope the next time that I get pregnant that everything will be fine. ... [snip!] ... will be fine. I have decided that the next time that I do I am not going to tell ANYONE until after my first trimester."

Yeah i didnt tell anybody until i started showing... I am still considered high risk because there is fluid around my amnotic sac. I wish you the best!

Quoting G.Quintana:" Yeah i didnt tell anybody until i started showing... I am still considered high risk because there is fluid around my amnotic sac. I wish you the best!"

im not sure if I can until I start showing. It is going to be hard enough on me to wait until after my first trimester, unless I myself dont find out until then. I wonder, how long does it usually take before someone gets pregnant again after a MC?

Quoting Sweetp87:" im not sure if I can until I start showing. It is going to be hard enough on me to wait until after my ... [snip!] ... I myself dont find out until then. I wonder, how long does it usually take before someone gets pregnant again after a MC?"

fertility can return right after a mc....i have known women that got pregnant after mc before they even had a period.

Quoting 5 blessings so far....:" fertility can return right after a mc....i have known women that got pregnant after mc before they even had a period."

really? humm. Thats interesting. I really do want another one but i do not want the same thing to happen to me again.