So I found out bad news... My bd has a gf... And plans to mo

Ok so there's this guy I had a huge crush on. We are mutual friends and well I've seen him at parties. This time I saw him at a party. I was really really drunk. I don't even remember much just that at one point we did have sex probably. It was just a drunk night. But here I am now pregnant... I told my bff and then I told him nd he told me I had to get rid of it because he has no interest in being around he has a gf and is moving his family is... So I'm out of luck with him... My bff assumed I was getting an ab too. But I hate it. Like my sister is 6 months pregnant to some loser guy and is now married and buying a house in the fall. She's less than 3 years older than me. I feel like it's not fair to me. Also my family will be angry at me but don't they have to help? They supported her... Why not me? I feel like if I can give birth why can't I be a mom? I just worry what will be said at school... Advice?

You are 15 hun. Weigh your options. Its very hard to be a mother. Have you told your parents? They don't HAVE to help you. I would focus on school and graduating.

Quoting preggoteenconfusion:" Ok so there's this guy I had a huge crush on. We are mutual friends and well I've seen him at parties. ... [snip!] ... her... Why not me? I feel like if I can give birth why can't I be a mom? I just worry what will be said at school... Advice?"

I am completely confused by this post? So you probably had sex then ended up pregnant. You're mad that your parent support your older sister who is pregnant but may not support you in your decision to have a child? Is that the gist of it? Please think long and hard about this.

That is a situation where you need to think long and hard about all of your options. You're very young.

Quoting alyssssa ★:" You are 15 hun. Weigh your options. Its very hard to be a mother. Have you told your parents? They don't HAVE to help you. I would focus on school and graduating."

  Most definitely weigh out your options. You have to remember you will more than likely be doing this alone. You may or may not have family to help you.

it's not fair to you? you didn't have to get that drunk and smurf some guy.

& you're 15? Maybe that's why they don't support you?

A baby is a huge responsibility & you will have to depend on your parents a lot. Your sister isn't in their house living off of them. She has graduated high school & is with the father of her child.

Honestly, some kids at school won't give a smurf. Other kids will probably be brutal. If you want this kid, just ignore them. There's nothing you can do to change their opinion.

"I don't even remember much just that at one point we did have sex probably."

 

Drunk at 15? And you wondering why your parents might not support you?

You should talk to Ur family about why are They supporting Her but not you and for the guy screw Him.....U will find such a nice guy who won't care if it's His baby....It doesn't take DNA to be a Dad if takes time and <3....U seem like such a sweet girl and U deserve to be a great mom....I would take Him 4 child support and who knows once He sees His baby He will fall in <3 with both of U  )

Think about what would be best for the child here. Abortion and keeping the child aren't the only options, there is adoption too. Good luck in making your decision sweetie.

Quoting preggoteenconfusion:" Ok so there's this guy I had a huge crush on. We are mutual friends and well I've seen him at parties. ... [snip!] ... her... Why not me? I feel like if I can give birth why can't I be a mom? I just worry what will be said at school... Advice?"

You can be a successful single mom. Get whatever help you can from your family, the state,and child support. Don't quit school, and don't give up! You should not feel pressured to have an abortion. There is precious life inside of you.

age 15....drunk at parties...where are parents these days?

Think long and hard and make the best decision for you and your little one

Coming from someone who is 16 and pregnant. Think about this. It's not going to be easy. I am here if you need to talk.

Quoting JL Carnahan:" You should talk to Ur family about why are They supporting Her but not you and for the guy screw Him.....U ... [snip!] ... be a great mom....I would take Him 4 child support and who knows once He sees His baby He will fall in <3 with both of U  )"

don't give her false hope of this guy "loving her"

the chances of that are slim. he has a girlfriend. at 15, most relationships don't work out. the fact that she had no idea he had a girlfriend shows they obviously didn't know each other well to begin with, and adding a baby would make that easier how?

Quoting Lil' Nugget.:" it's not fair to you? you didn't have to get that drunk and smurf some guy. & you're 15? Maybe that's ... [snip!] ... Other kids will probably be brutal. If you want this kid, just ignore them. There's nothing you can do to change their opinion."

Just because she's 15 doesn't mean they shouldn't support her, that's a bit stupid, what kind of mother does that?